My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore (I didn't know anything was wrong). He says he wants to 'think' about it for the next month, to figure things out. But I don't understand how he can figure everything out in a few weeks. He still calls me and talks to me and he kissed me today. I just want to know what I should do.
2007-01-06 11:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by AlonebutTaken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him the bj ever. He'll be back.
2007-01-06 13:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Billy T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Almost the same exact thing happened with me, only a little bit different. He probably still has feelings for you which is why hes still calling and kissing you. However, chances are that he will still break up with you if he doesn't feel it is that way already. Talk to him. Try asking him what you did wrong. Also, you should let him know that he needs to stop sending you mixed messages. I hope it helps. Good luck.
2007-01-06 19:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by nicegirl147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone needs time to think, it means they are having problems with the relationship and want to be free. A guy comes back because he cares, still has feelings feels guilty and is lonely, but that doesn't mean he wants to be back forever or will be committed. I've been through that myself, I've held on hoping it will work and it never does. Usually when they get to the point where they need to think, it's already too late.
2007-01-06 19:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Daphney S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he has 2 think about it he does still deep inside still want 2 go out but he might be bored and need change do something exciting do some different than u usually do
2007-01-06 19:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Preppy Prep Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know and he doesn't know then don't answer the phone or see him for a week. See if you care. See if he cares. You''ll both find out what it's like to not have each other for a week. See how it goes. Then you might see things better.
2007-01-06 19:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd quit talking to him until he makes up his mind. He's trying to keep you hanging on so you will be there on the sidelines. Let him know you have a life too.
2007-01-06 19:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by JACQUELINE T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he might have met another chick he likes. I say just move on
and meet someone who wants to be with you. If you look like your moving on he might become jealouse and take you back quicker...Shoiw him it doesn't faze you.. I know its tougher then it looks.
2007-01-06 19:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs space, maybe he is tired of you. Be prepared to move on...guys are not that important, you have other things to focus on. don't let this bastard you use anymore. :)
2007-01-06 19:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by qt3aybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you the truth i think he is confused anytime he still kiss you and call you or he just want the sex
2007-01-06 19:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Te-Te 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's fkg with your head
tell him your over it and find something better to do with your time than wait for a shi* like him
come on ladies.................stop this treatment
2007-01-08 00:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by chickenhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋