compliment his ex-girlfriend? they went out and only broke up because he moved away. after 4 years he still liked/loved her or whatever...and he said he got over her about a year ago. they still talk and are "good friends." he tells her she looks good or that her picture is "cute" and that he misses her. is it possible he's saying that and feels nothing for her anymore? i know he loves me, but i still get VERY jealous when he tells her stuff like that. even if its just "a compliment from a friend to a friend."
2007-01-06 11:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Jenniferrr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him kn ow how you feel!
2007-01-06 11:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His ex is not involved in your relationship, so don't complicate things...KISS method ring a bell (Keep It Simple Stupid...not calling you stupid by the way, I would just feel dumb spelling kiss with one s). If you trust him, and he's never given you a reason not to, then trust him, and write her off as another friend before you sabatoge your relationship, or push him to "commit the crime he's accused of." Until you really have a reason distrust him, don't. Guys not only compliment other women, we want to see most of the without clothes, lol...remember this, and understand that while he may think someone else looks good (he was obviously attracted to her for some reason, after all), YOU are the one he is with. He probably does miss her...isn't there anyone in your past that you had a relationship who's compainionship you don't miss? Women always forget: Never read into what a guy says/does...we're obvious and overt.
2007-01-06 11:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a talk with him right away! He needs to know that those compliments have to stop or your going elsewhere.
That's right, you sound very understanding and he sounds inconsiderate.
You have to be number one and he has to stop with the compliments now!
It's hard to say how he feels about her however too many compliments are not a good thing and I would confront him on that and tell him that it's unfair to you .
Good Luck .
2007-01-06 11:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ya.I'd be jealous with something like that.As long as he's telling you he loves you and things do not change between the two of you,don't worry.However,if you feel like there is something wrong and things aren't the same,be cautious.You can always have a talk with him.That might piss him off,thinking his ex of 4 years ago can still come between you guys.good luck hon.hope this helps!
2007-01-06 11:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it not ok, He should not keep tell her that, it sound like he still care alot about her and still want her in his life and not over her. He might love you but not over her. you should feel jealous that not right at all. he need to be up front with you and let you know if he stiil want to be with her or you. If he going to be with you he need to stop telling her that.
2007-01-06 11:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He still loves her, he may have learn to let her go a year ago but he still loves her, and maybe loves you too, he may not want her, you can love someone and not want them in your daily life.
2007-01-06 11:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its clear he still has feeling for that other girl
so you should just ask him that if he says yes
accept it if he says no then there just friends if he really loves you he'll tell you the truth
2007-01-06 11:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by spongebob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he still has feelings for her.
2007-01-06 11:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
clearly you are not working hard enough in bed.
2007-01-06 11:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by phooey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋