I have a girlfriend, and i really love her. but i continue to talk 2 different women just for the thrill. But at the end of the day i love her and only her.
2007-01-06 10:30:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you flirt with others to prove to yourself you "still got it"? Well, I don't think that you need to do that. Once you get over your insecurity, you'll be fine. I don't know about your lady, but personally, I would feel uncomfortable if my hubby flirted with other women. Look at it this way, would it be ok for her to talk to other men just for the thrill, and at the end of the day, she loves you and only you. See? You wouldn't buy that bs, why should she?
2007-01-06 10:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by msvietpig 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she know about this? If you cannot tell her it is wrong. I'm sure you would not appreciate it if the tables were turned. If you honor her by not flirting it will strengthen your relationship. You should ask your self why you need to talk to the other women? Could you find more legitimate ways to get a thrill.
2007-01-06 18:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong is that you pretend to be committed to a person but "are thrilled" by others. Soon enough this will become statements of faithfulness to her while having sex with others (for the thrill.)
You must decide--now--which will be more important to you: momentarily thrills or longterm reliability. Whichever you choose, you get . . . and all the consequences that go with your choice.
2007-01-06 19:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that he is married to this woman buh she styll talks to other women..
i kno u may love her.. buh there is probably someting that she doesnt do for u .. that makes u have to go to other women..
the thrill.. is it the thrill of gettin caught becuz if u get caught then u lose her..
i use to be like that honestly.. now that i think of it.. and from time to time i tend to want to talk to other men.. buh i decided that i REALLy want my relationship to work.. and think is these other people worth it?
yes it is so very wrong.. its lying.. and in a relationship.. u arent suppose to lie.. its her trust that ur abusing
2007-01-06 18:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by phatguyanesegurl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her shouldn't talking to her be enough of a thrill
2007-01-06 18:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think u just like the thrill of meeting new people and talking to them. Yea u should stop it cause it is like a bad habit of urs.
2007-01-06 18:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Pablo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm old and married, and hope that I never lose the thrill of talkng to women.
2007-01-06 18:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by CincinnatiDon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remember,this whatever,your doing,dint think for one second your girlfriend isn't doing the same thing...Just from a woman's perspective,we we man are natural born investigators.Here's food for your thoughts..Tell me would you believe her?if she said the same-thing you've just said...
2007-01-06 18:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong to chat with other girls, as long as you tell them about your girlfriend. My boyfriend chats with other women, and its alright with me, as long as he tells them up front that he has a girlfriend and nothing will happen between them. Just like he doesn't mind me chatting with other men as long ax they know up front that I do have a boyfriend and nothing would happen between us.
2007-01-06 19:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. how would you feel if this were you and she was out doing that? its not being completley honest. maybe someone should explain to you what love really is. but if you decide not to stop, just make sure that you NEVER! cheat on her, coz youll lose her.
2007-01-06 20:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by meju 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋