Me and my ex had a thing for 2 years, then started to date for a few months. The relationship was really overwhelming, and considering we were young and I was dealing with depression, he ended things. Within the year of not speaking, he was with another girl and I dated a few guys and had the odd fling. Last month we started talking again, whereas the month before he broke up with his gf.
We spoke like we were best friends, & spent weeks talking to each other until one night we went to a party and ended up having sex. Alot of I've missed you's were said. After that he said "Give us some time." I gave him space, and now we're talking again like before. I've asked him over the net if we could about what happened in person and he's really up for the chat, so we're meeting up soon.
He isn't the type of guy to use girls for sex, I made sure and asked his friends, in which they said that would be very unlike him. He's over his last gf, but I know he must be confused. We'll we be ok?
2007-01-06 10:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by katyyy76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd just take it really slowly. I think it's 50/50 at best. Don't rule out dating other guys while you talk to this man, however. Keep your options open. Also, you need to really look at why you want to be with him again. Is it more about familiarity and a comfort zone with a man you already know? Really look at the reasons for wanting to get back together.
Good luck.
2007-01-06 10:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I was dealing with depression" I didnt really have to read anymore after that comment. You were already bowing out of the relationship by making up reason it didnt work the first time. Sadly, this is a habit that you must break. Date someone new is the best option. Dont let your or their heart be broken again. Spend sometime to get over this relationship and find yourself a new lover...
Dr FF
2007-01-06 10:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by xdrfirefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 17:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you've both matured and are able to have a nice relationship with open communication. Take it slowly. Don't ask his friends about him. Talk to him about your worries or questions. Don't be pushy, just go with the flow. :)
2007-01-06 11:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will only tell. Try not to rush it and take things slowly. Dont count on his friends words for you to make up your decision about who he is and what he does. Figure that out for yourself. Friends are usually bound to lie to cover for each other.
2007-01-06 10:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uses girls for sex and you want to get back with him......I would think twice abut that.
A soft heart leads to a sore ASSS
2007-01-06 10:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prpbably not even though hes over his ex you have to rem.youre an ex too.hes probably just lookin to hang out until he finds another gf
2007-01-06 10:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think in my own mind that if you are really met to be then it will happen
!!! good lluck! and also i think you and him should wait a little time before getting back together
2007-01-06 10:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by sassysheb!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your whole question, but aren't exes an ex for a reason?
2007-01-06 10:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋