So I have been dating a girl for a little while now and I have a stupid question. Is it worth getting upset about if she has done almost everything you want to do in bed already? I mean I know that probably sounds stupid, but I just want to share something with her and me and thats it, not something that she has already done with someone else. I need some insight.
2007-01-06 10:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by joecool71_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, then you'll have to ask her if there is anything she hasn't done that she has thought about doing.
People come into relationships with all kinds of sexual experiences. It just depends on the person. What you are "sharing" that is exclusive to the two of you is not necessarily the physical acts of sex - it is the emotional connection. You need to realize that this is probably even more important than the sexual acts themselves. So if I were you, I'd tried to get over the idea that the two of you have to do "something" exclusive in order for you to be happy. It's not relevant, especially if she is happy in the relationship!
2007-01-06 10:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well each time you and her so much as hold hands you experiencing something new and unique only to the two of you .
were not robots life and relationships are not as simple as putting the female thing on the wall and then inserting the male thing and seeing the light go on. no even if you were to find some new way say standing on your heads well you did it it would be no less unique to the two of you . were humans we are capable of walking along the same path every day and every day finding something new . you two are now walking on the path together take a look around stop think and feel what is going on i think then you will find both of you have found something new on this bit of the walk and will do so everyday if you really want
2007-01-06 18:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worth getting upset about ? No. But to be frustrated and feel less special with her...yes.
Right or wrong . . . I'd think a guy would want to feel that the woman he is with and shares a sexual relationship with is a bit 'pure' in the sense that she has not experienced it all, that he can be special and unique to her that he can share something special that he can open to her awareness and discovery . . . that he can see the response in her when she is experiencing that 'new experience' with him for the first time.
Not worth getting ' upset' about . . . But, I could see that you would feel to be less of a special man to her.
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2007-01-06 18:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can get upset for a little while but just give it a chance and see how it works out
2007-01-06 18:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about this one. You must be quite young, as you get older how many virgins do you anticipate dating?? What you want will get more and more difficult to find wont it? Forget the other guy/s its special because it the two of you!
2007-01-06 18:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to do the same with you she is your girl now she can do it with you
2007-01-06 18:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything you can come up with that is new. Everything a person can do has been done by someone in the past.
2007-01-06 18:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its understandable, but not likely to happen nowadays!!
2007-01-06 18:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋