Me and my current boyfriend have been dating for about two months. In that short period of time we have fallen in Love which each other. I still talk to my ex because we are just friends and we attened the same school so it's kind of hard not to talk to him. We still talk on the phone every now and then. I still love him but I love my current boyfriend to because he treats me better. I am just trying to see how I can forget about the feelings I had for him and move on but, it's so hard.
2007-01-06 10:14:58 · 27 answers · asked by lilhaze1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stop being so friendly with your ex..its not right.
2007-01-06 10:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No It's Not Hard! Just Stop Doing It! In The First Place You Shouldn't Have Run To Another Guy If You Loved You Ex!
So Ditch Your Ex! Just Tell Him You Don't Want To Talk To Him Anymore! Not Mean! Honest!
Let Go And Be Done With It! Besides What Would Your Boyfriend Think Of This!
2007-01-06 10:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like your in my shoes about a year and a half ago. They say it takes half the time you dated someone to fully get over them and i am sure it doesnt help that you see him everyday.
Another question is was your ex your first love? For me my first love i will never fully get over him.
My best advice is to keep on remembering why you broke up and why your not with. Always keep in mind how your current boyfriend is treating you. It will take a little while but it wont be that bad after awhile.
BEST OF LUCK!
2007-01-06 10:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by buhash06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your feelings for you x-bf aren't a question of right or wrong, you simply have them. Some people may always have a certain amount of feeling for past partners, while others may "get over it" relatively quickly. You can't always control you're feelings, but you can control how you act on them. I don't think it would be fair to anyone involved, that if after breaking up with him, you gave the impression:
-that he still had any obligations to you,
-that sexual flirtation was welcome,
-that you might come to him if you were having problem with your current bf,
and of course there is the mundane advice of being careful not to be alone together with your X. (all of this is to be taken with a "grain of salt" mind you ;-O )
2007-01-06 10:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to have feelings for the past boyfriend, but it is important to break off ties so that you can move forward with the new guy. We are often torn about our feelings for our past partners, especially if we meet somebody soon after a break-up or relationship ends.
I agree with the above poster that you are not in love. Real love takes much longer than 2 months to develop. You are still in the infatuation stage. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't mistake it for love.
2007-01-06 10:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you just fooling yourself,you still love the ex,and refuse to open your eyes,don't use the story about you going to the same school as an excuse.Problem is you want the ex to be the so called new boyfriend your dating now...
2007-01-06 10:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there's a distinction between being in love with somebody and loving somebody. i'm specific he nevertheless has thoughts because of the fact the smash up is new. That dose no longer imply he needs to interrupt up with you. i could supply him slightly area, the extra you crowed him the extra he will push you away. additionally you extremely do no longer understand what he grew to become into disenchanted approximately. i understand your no longer a ideas reader and can be leaping previous to your self. supply the guy slightly area and spot how issues bypass.
2016-10-06 13:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about as okay as it is for your new boyfriend to still talk to his ex and have feelings for her. A good technique to help you to move on is to imagine your new boo doing what you do, every time you do that. I am sure it will be no time at all before you see the light. hehe
2007-01-06 10:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that you can truly move on until you let go of your last love. Its OK to talk once in a great while but you shouldn't often I really dont believe in remaining friends with ex's but thats just ME
2007-01-06 10:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't shut off feelings like a water faucet so expect to have feelings for your ex for a while. They will wain away the more you see your new boyfriend and the more familiar you become with him. Your ex will take the back seat to your new found fling, so not to worry, just give yourself time.
2007-01-06 10:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you need to get over you ex but stay in contact fi you choose. Your new bf is the main love in your life right now and there should not be another man clouding your train of tought of you new bf.
2007-01-06 10:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by The girl who needs help??!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋