My boyfriend and I are both in college.(He's a junior and I'm a freshmen). We have been dating for about a year. He says he loves me and hope this relationship last for a long time, but I just want to have fun during my college years. I want to break-up with him without hurting his heart, so should I?
2007-01-06 10:10:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes break up with him and go and have some fun..you are both too young to be serious.
2007-01-06 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of told him right from the start you were just out to have fun.
When he said I hope this relationship last for a long time you should of asked him what did he mean by that, because you see the relationship as one way, and you want to make sure you two are on the same page.
Don't lead him on. If he feels for you the best thing to do is to let him go. It does not have to be a shouting match, you can do it like to adults.
Good luck.
And I really think you knew the answer before you asked?
you know morally keeping him hanging on is not right.
2007-01-06 10:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by ms_swampy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to just have fun during your college years.
If he is a smart, nice, respect-full, man then you might be letting go of something you may never get back with another man.
Are you wanting to just have fun by sleep around with random people?
I would be asking myself a lot of questions.
This guy is in college, he has a great future, responsible, smart, nice, and in love with you for some reason!
Think about it and then do what you want.
Be hones, the longer you wait the harder it will be on him. I know I said think about it. But once you know what you want to do. Just do it. People like right out honesty
2007-01-06 10:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey..you just answered your own question. Yes you should break up with him. Sit him down and have a serious talk with him. Tell him that you want to do. If what you have is real then it will still be here in 4 years. Good Luck, study hard and have fun!!
2007-01-06 10:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no i no I'm still in high school and all but that's not right i mean just having fun in college that's stupid if you have a relationship it should BE a relationship as in like wouldn't you want to be like o whats the word um pure yea that's the word i mean theres a whole other side to this answer but i wont get in to that i think your old enough and smart enough to make the RIGHT decision.
2007-01-06 10:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-06 10:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of selfish of you but you obviously don't care about him at all since you are considering randomly breaking up with him becuase you just want to have fun he should break up with you
2007-01-06 10:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u just have fun with him. Why is it neccessary for you to date around. But it is up to you, and ur still young
2007-01-06 10:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are young. Go out and live life.
2007-01-06 10:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by pepsiolic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait longer...maybe after sometime u might realize he's worth it for u 2 stay w/ him...but if u really wanna break up w/ him then juz tell him how u feel*
2007-01-06 10:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by confused* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋