I think my boyfriend of 3 years is lying to me about picking up a woman in a bar.?

Question

I found a text message on M's phone from a woman(L) and I called her. She said that on Tksgvng night(he told me he had his kids that night) she met M in a bar & they danced, talked, & at closing he walked her to her car. He was there alone. Next morning he drove about 30 mins. to the cafe where she works, had breakfast with her(by himself) , asked her out, got her number and told her she ought to come to a Karate tourn. he was in on Dec.9.(Which he discouraged me from coming to saying that he wouldn't be able to spend time with me there). L said that M never called her back or anything for two weeks so she went to the tourn. to see him. L said that M led her to thnk they might get together later but she tried to call his phone and it was turned off(he was with me).L says M has never called her. His story: He went to the bar with Shane. S liked L's friend(T) who also works at the cafe. S asked M to go eat breakfast so he could see T. M says that L showed up at tourn. uninvited. Help!

Answer 1

it kind of sounds like he is lying! did she tell you about all of these things? she may just be trying to come in between you two but why would she do that??
idk...i say leave...they like to lie a lot for some reason

Answer 2

Help you what? Find a new Boy Friend? Because thats what you need to be doing.

And I'm available. I'd never do that to you.

Answer 3

well it's obvious that he had interest in her and you should dump him.. imagine how far this will get if you don't, I know she's not the only woman in the world and if he's being forward with her then chances are he'll be forward with other women as well :) :) :)

Answer 4

Dump is stupid *** and leave his *** in the gutter

Answer 5

Your b/f is lying.