I mean come on, who wants a 'babies daddy?' Go back to the tramp who you had them with and be with her! It is beyond me that guys are so darn picky about who they date, but then expect US women to take them receading hair line, pudgy belly, kids and all. Men sometimes won't date a girl who smokes or is not popular or who had kids, but we are supposed to take them any old way? Yeah right! Plus, most of these are divorced with kids at age 35. Might I ask how you can be divorced and have kids already by the time you are 35? You should be married at least until you are fifty. Plus I have no respect for people in fly-by-night marriages. If he left the first girl, he will leave you, if the first marriage didn't work, then yours won't either. Any other women on here won't date a man with kids? And please share your stories why and tell the stupid comments you get as a result of not doing so.
2007-01-06 09:50:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I date men with kids for there dough.
2007-01-06 09:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ladylove 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My dad adopted me and because of women like you he cant get a date.... *****.... He´s a really nice guy and I hate women like you... He doesnt have a tramp to go back to. He wasnt with one to start with, he chose to adopt me because he loves me and you´ll never find a nice guy thats willing to be with you. You´ll end up with losers that never experienced marriage, kids or anything, so therefore will suck at being a dad and probably be an ex alcoholic that slept with whatever he could and that´s why he never had a serious enough relationship to try marriage. And so what if he divorced? It doesnt mean it wont work. What if he thought it was his soul mate but the woman was the problem? What if she cheated and he divorced and thought you were perfect and you clicked greatly, but oh yeah you dont marry ´assholes´ that are divorced.... Why am I even bothering to waste my time with you? I wish I never meet a woman like you, get a life and stop being picky. I´m not picky at all, dont judge all guys, judge some and don´t judge just guys, say some people dont say men, okay? Thanks for listening
oh and he´s not old, fat and ugly. He adopted me when he was 18 and I was 10! he´s sporty an dhe is not fat at all and I don´t copnsider him ugly. No pudgy belly, no receeding hairline. (you need to learn to spell lady. It´s receeding, even I can spell better than you and I´m 14! lol)
2007-01-06 18:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sense allot of anger here and it's ok... it's not a gender thing hun, it's a person thing.. not all men who have children are bad and I have no problem dating a guy who has little ones.. this doesn't mean that he'll be the worst guy you've ever met because of this or the fact that he's divorced... not everything is meant to work out when it comes to relationships and just because he's divorced doesn't mean that if you then marry him that it's not going to work.. I think that maybe your just going after the wrong guys is all :) :) :)
2007-01-06 17:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has the kids, he didn't leave her, she left him. Speaking of double standards. How do women feel about men that won't date them because they have kids. it sucks. so why would you do the same to someone else. everyone has situations arise and some relationships just don't work out. what you need to check is how he is with the kids, it will show what type of man he will be when he has a family with you.
2007-01-06 18:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by bosco6159 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you don't have any kids???? A good parent is upfront about their kids because there will come a time when they may have to cancel a date because their kids need them for one thing or another. I had to cancel a date yesterday because my ex was bringing my kids back home sooner then planned. My date totally understood and rescheduled. There a LOT of really good guys who have kids. They way they describe their relationship to their kids will say a LOT about how they will treat the right woman in their life. But that is my opinion.
2007-01-06 17:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gee, a bit bitter aren't you?
Keep your standards, but also realize that in today's world, there are a lot of single parents in the dating scene. Not all relationships work out for a number of reassons. If you hate men this much why not join the rug muncher's brigade and not worry about it.
2007-01-06 18:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by mike w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot to learn.
If you don't want to date men with children, then don't. People make mistakes in life. There are two sides to every story. Thankfully there are mature people out there who understand that. We'll see how you feel about it 20 years from now.
2007-01-06 17:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my fiance has kids, but just because a relationship/marriage with children didn't work out, doesn't mean that he was a jerk and left her for no reason! what if it wasn't his fault?
i love my fiance, kid or no kids!!
and the way i see it, the previous relationship wouldn't have worked out, wether they had kids or not, you never know the reason they broke up until you ask!
as long as he takes care of his kids, i dont mind.
if he didn't take care of them, THEN i would be worried, because the children did not ask to be brought into this world, and they deserve to be taken care of.
2007-01-06 17:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz the fact they have kids doesnt mean they should be celibate and alone for life.
2007-01-06 17:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a lot to learn.
2007-01-06 19:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋