why do most guys act so heartless??

Question

i wanna kno why guys do these things??
~why do guys break up with a girl and seem to act like he has no regrets and not look back?
~how can a guy tell a girl he loves her and dumps her and finds another girl like its nothing?
~why do they act like a$$holes after a breakup??
~do guys really not care if a friend dates their ex..espacially an ex of a long time??

girls are different. all my friends, they care a dont date friends ex and act rude after breakups *some do) but why do guys do it???

i know SOME guys arent like that. im just askin cuz of the guys who are
and im mainly askin bout HIGHSCHOOL GUYs. but every input is good

Answer 1

Guys are raised up to be strong.
Unfortunately that means that some of us become heartless and emotionless.

Believe or not but when we break up with a girl, it hurts. We just don't show it.

I can be considered cold and heartless but underneath I have emotions. (can't believe I just admitted to that) :-)

I have cried over a girl (it was in private)

Men tend to be driven more by thoughts than emotions.

Hope that helps.

Answer 2

Allot of guys, especially high school puppies are afraid to show any kind of emotion. At home, it's a different story but outside, they pretend to be heartless. I don't know why allot of guys can quickly turn from love to hate so easily. Personally, allot of my best friends are my ex's. Dating friends ex's is a territory issue. Think like Lions. Once the old alpha is out, the new younger one is up in there before you know it. We're stupid. It's a fact of life. Go for the guys who see through this stupidity and have grown out of it.

Answer 3

guys act like assholes cuz its a defense mechanism. and just as women when they break up they dont want to be alone so they look for comfort. guys just want to forget. girls comfort- guys forget.

Answer 4

Guys will always be DOGS, it's just something you have to accept.