tired to be the only one to motivate him about his prostate problems and depression. He is 64 and I am 52. I try to cheer him up, I tell him how much I love him, but it is getting a pain because one day he says he wants to come and see me again, other days he says he does not know anymore, then he keeps silence because he says it is safer.........I don't know how to deal with a guy like this..........I like people to be sincere and honest and not playing games. AM I RIGHT?? Should I still write him or just vanish? Would you help me please?
2007-01-06 09:16:38 · 3 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear about this. If he continues as he is going, then I believe you need to have a heart to heart talk with him. If he doesn't respond in a way that you want him, then vanish. Don't wait on him if he's having a "pity party". Life is too short for that. They have people in the world with more serious problems than him right now. If he doesn't get a move on, then you move on. I wish you the best of luck Dri.
2007-01-06 09:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you're married or not. Why dont you ask him or write to him how you feel about this in a ince way.
*nice.
If he continues, then you can tell him that you need to stop seeing him.
Good luck
2007-01-06 17:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need him at all? He seems to be useless for you. Move on.
2007-01-06 17:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋