There is this one guy who I really like, but he is mean 2 me sometimes and other times he is really nice and when hes nice he also acts like he likes me...i am getting mixed signals from him so i wanna no....do u think he likes me or not?
2007-01-06 09:13:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He once gave me a bloody nose on the bus but he said that he felt really bad about it so i need help on figuring out if he really likes me or if he is just a player!! So...HELP!
2007-01-06 09:27:42 · update #1
yea
for guys, its a way of expressing feelings... a guy may show his affection 4 u by being super nice to you, or being really really mean. i think he does like you. just simply ask him: Why are you so mean to me soometimes? ...next time hes being rude. I know what you mean, and i asked this one guy the same thing and it turns out, he meant something totally diferent than what i thought!
hope this helps
Dessi <3
2007-01-06 09:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Susanna 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
If your in the 2-5 grade and a guy is mean to you, Then that means he likes you.
If your older than that and a guy is mean to you , stay away from him.
You will know when a guy likes you because he will just melt when he see you and will be calling you all the time.
and yes I'm a guy just telling you the way it is.
P.S.I wrote this to a girl the other day read it and see if you can relate to it.
Forget him.... It's real easy to fall in love on the computer. I know I've been there. After being heart broken and getting over it I log back on and searched in my area ONLY. Yes I met Girls in my area and most of them were different than what I expected. There personality were not the same in real life. However Keep searching The right one is there looking for you. After a few months I found my girlfriend. We dated for about a year and a half then moved in together. and things have been very good scents then. Well HAPPY searching. gtg
Source(s):
P.S. I forgot to tell you we've been liveing together for 9 years now.
2007-01-06 09:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theory 1: Sometimes when you like someone, your judgment is clouded by your feelings. So maybe you're imagining that he acts like he likes you too. You can try observing if he behaves like this with other girls.
Theory 2: But then again, sometimes boys don't know how to express their feelings. So maybe he likes you but he's afraid you don't like him back, and he acts mean coz he's embarrassed or he has conflicting emotions.
Conclusion: So, if you're up for it, be honest and tell him you like him. He might be relieved you did it instead of him. And if things end positively, you won't have to go through this agony. However, the downside is, there is a possibility you might get rejected (because of theory #1 above).
2007-01-06 09:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by alex405hi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well guys are always mean.. j/k.. although sometimes they give u the sign that they dont like u so u don't notice and maybe they don't want to get attached.. although they forget about that when u all are having a great time and something leads to another.. but dont get worried this guy prob really likes u.. when he acts mean just ignore it and well act like u dont care.. that will make him feel bad about it and will want to apologize then will want to make up for it.. u wind up winning at the end.. try it
2007-01-06 09:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by peepsqueak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me give you the simple answer...
He doesn't like you the way you think he likes you.
He's just acting mean and nice just like we feel friendly and nice to other people but we can also be mean to them as well. That doesn't mean we feel anything "special" towards them.
I think he really doesn't like you and he's testing his limits to see how far he can go hurting you to show off to his buddies. If he's not 18 and over...he's really not interested in girls...he's interested in showing off to his buddies, playing sports and computer games. The type of guy you are talking about seems to be like a "mook".
When he's nice to you are his friends around? When he's mean to you and his friends there laughing too? You really should pay attention to that.
2007-01-06 09:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means very bad could come later. With the divorce rate at around at least 50% You need a man that has the very least bad traits. And you cannot believe a man in certain areas, as to asking him why he acts a certain way, because usually he does not know. This could be a wife abuser or batterer, or beater. DROP him now. A little bit of meanness wrecks the whole kaboodle.
2007-01-06 09:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Even if he likes you, do you want to be with a person that doesn't care about your feeling and been mean to you? Imagine once you start date him? he won't have a problem beating you, b/c he already show you he is a mean and stupid person. Believe me there is a lot of good guys out there don't wast your time with a mean guy. I HEAT MEAN GUYS!!
2007-01-06 09:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that he has mixed feelings too. You might have done something that irritates him so he may act mean to you sometimes. But if you are getting signals that he likes you, then he does. Or, he may just be flirting with you when he acts mean, I know guys who do that a lot.
2007-01-06 09:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Regardless of whether he likes you, you deserve better, Why would you want a guy that can't show that he cares about you all the time? You deserve that man who is proud to show his love for you to everyone at all times.
I know sometimes it may seem like he'll never come... but I promise if you're patient and you're not looking for him, he will appear right under your nose. It always works. The only thiing that can stop it is if you settle for less- so don't!
2007-01-06 09:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Coco Jingle 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
oh dear.....i have been in the same situation for a long time...believe me its when a guy plays with u....he knows that u like him and anything he does u will accept that' why he treats u like that...The best thing u can do...gradually prove that u do not care at all..he can be nice or bad its up to him
2007-01-06 09:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is MEAN to you, STAY AWAY from him. Why would you want to be with someone who is mean to you either physically or mentally???
Good Lord kid, there are sooo many better guys to choose from who won't treat you mean. This guys could end up beating the hell out of you or killing you because something sets him off or who knows why....
Why would you want to be with someone who is this way toward you NOW??????
2007-01-06 09:18:35 · answer #11 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋