My relationships are always short, and it seems like I spend more time getting over breakups than i do enjoying time with my bf. Should i still go crush on guys or should I just wait till im older?
2007-01-06 09:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by Kari 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea they dont mean anything until u get alot older. Maybe u shouldnt actively be searching for a relationship, let the right guy come to u.
2007-01-06 09:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel this way, but if I was you I would be trying to get all the education I can because things are getting harder as you get older. Right now I would wait till I'm a Little older before I start dating. See when I was going to school I let boyz come in the way of my learning and another thing I was scared to tell my mom that I couldn't see the chalk board for the longest. My teacher would see me in the front of the class,but I still couldn't see nothing. I needed glasses in pre school,but I went through school without my glasses and I didn't learn much I heard the teachers talking and trying to explain things but I couldn't see what they was doing on the chalk board. This has hurt me in the long run It's alot that I don't know but I wouldn't tell anyone because I would be to embrassed about it. So back to you take your time and talk to your mom about things you don't know about she loves you and no matter what happens she would be there for you.
2007-01-06 17:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anything you feel right now is just a crush anyway and crushes come and crushes go.... Save yourself the pain and wait till your older..... but I warn you even when you are older doesn't mean there won't be any pain. Perhaps less though.
2007-01-06 17:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of early. Just keep it as a crush type thingy. Though it's natural for a girl your age to be interested in boys. Just keep in mind that boys your age are very curious about things that should be left alone.
2007-01-06 17:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no i started dating in 5th grade but do remember that you should only date to find the right or guy that you want to be with for the rest of your life unlike my parents who got divorced after they had me and my 3 sisters.
2007-01-06 17:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cassy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you are at least in highschool. You have a better idea of what you want out of a guy and who you want to date, plus you will be more mature.
2007-01-06 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on yr maturity
but most of the time yr ready
yr growing up
and defining yourself
if you choose to date in 7th grade
then you can
before that is a lil unreasonable
but i think yr old enough
most likely
2007-01-06 17:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by onlyblonde1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, be a 7th grader, trust me you'll have more than enough time to date crappy guys later in life....be your age, don't stress over stuff like that, just have fun now
2007-01-06 17:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until 9th grade. Trust me. Im in 9th now and even last year when i went out with some1 i wasnt ready. (plus he was really weird lol)
2007-01-06 17:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kay-Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait trust me cause when your older u'll have lads 2 worry about then.just injoy ya self n have fun wid ya friends when ya young ......n y ya still can
2007-01-06 17:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by vicki b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋