i am a lesbian, a woman whom is a little older than me fancies me i think..?

Question

i am a lesbian 21 years of age, a woman whom is about 33 has kissed me down my neck, she slowly caressed it and kissed me on it. She doesnt know i am a lesbian but i have a feeling she really likes me but i dont know how much. Shes a muslim like me and got into an arranged marriage and has 5 kids. She keeps calling me her sweetheart and saying i wish there was someone like u. I met her through my mother, because my mother friends with her mother in law. The first time i met her i sensed she was looking at me differently, and since after that when ever i make eye contact her eyes become shy. I have known her for about 2 years she has touched me breats slightly aswell by brushing them and stroked my hair. I have since seen her at someones funeral and her body language suggested she was very happy too see me, i couldnt talk too her because my mother and her mother in law had a fight so theres a feud going on. When she saw me at funeral she was so shy, couldnt speak because she was with

hubby and i was with mother. She came really close too me but grabbed a lady in front because she was so shy, i dont know what she feels for me, but i have noticed she always stickes up for me, and takes my side etc i wish there wasnt a feud between our families. She said too me once your face so beautiful i was so touched, i want too tell her i feel same but cant. What shall i do

i dont have her number even though she lives 5 mins away. Its ex directory cant go near her house due to our family feud. i wish i could get her number

Answer 1

Sorry, I do not think you can fool around with a married woman. It hurts terribly I can imagine, There is no "loop hole" for lesbians, cheating is cheating. You will ruin her life if she becomes stranded or outcast with 5 children. If you to discuss it with her, then make it brief. Acknowledge it or maybe she is just desperate for affection maybe you are too?? Good luck.

Answer 2

It sounds to me like she really fancies you; but I dont think that it would be long term. After all she is married and has 5 kids. Can you see her leaving her husband for you?
If you just want a casual no strings relationship, then fine. But if you are looking for a partner who can commit to you and be there for you and with you when you need her, then look elsewhere. Its seems to me to just be an affair type of thing that will not lead to anything. Sorry but that is how it appears to me. Alot of people seem to crave what they cant have. Go find yourself another woman to have a relationship with, that is what I would do.
I wish you all the best! :o)

Answer 3

It sounds like this woman does fancy you; and your situation is doubly difficult because of your religion and status.
You could put yourselves both in great danger if you were to persue a relationship with her.
There're bound to be other women out there, who share your faith and who are also gay.
Walk away from it, it's the best you can do.
Good luck for the future.
And yes, I would think that th woman is gay; I have heard that it takes one to recognise another.
But never mind that, you will meet another woman who isn't in a so complicated situation and would be able to return your love or passion with much freedom.
Good luck.x

Answer 4

do you have her number? if so call her to set up a meeting just you two. Express your feelings to her, But theirs one problem that you need to take care of you must have time talk with the other party too find out where she is coming from. I had similar problem family always get in the way step to your on beat

Answer 5

if shes married let her break off first and then she! can make the first move toward you. dont get involved with people who are already married. also she didnt know you were lesbian but decided it was ok to touch you without your permission, i find that creepy and disturbing. if i done that to a girl i would be accused of attempted rape.

forget about her

Answer 6

Perhaps you need to kiss her down her neck. It's saying YES without saying a word. Then let her make the next move.

Answer 7

if shes not leaving her husband then im sorry but dont get your heart tangled up with her. Find her number and give her a call... after you talk to her she may come out with how she really feels. but there are tons of other women out there waiting for you. If shes not leaving her husband dont just wait.

Answer 8

go for it bugger what anybody thinks the parents want to grow up and you have a right to be happy good luck all the best

Answer 9

If your both lesbians get it on

Answer 10

go for it