my husband walked away saying he was unhappy ,this is not the first time its happened, he was going to stay at a friend's house but when he got there his mates girlfriend had kicked him out to. now my husband all of a sudden loves me , checking up on chat rooms to see if I'm on there and kind of acting obsessed, do you think i shuled take him back if he asks or leve him to sleep in his car?? do you think maybe its carma
2007-01-06 08:59:29 · 25 answers · asked by marie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is using you, if he finds some place else to go he could walk out again. Say he can't come back and play it on your terms. Maybe he will realise that he can't treat you that way and back off.
2007-01-06 09:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you put up with this sort of behaviour, he said he is not happy and he doesn't love you so why take someone back who feels that way about you, its bound to be an unhappy marriage and would end at some point anyway. unless you , if you still love him and feel there is something in your marriage that is worth saving then you could both have a long talk and try sort something out. but he made his feelings clear let him live with his decision.
2007-01-06 09:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marie, please accept the fact that the love is gone and that you have so much more worth than to take him back because he is desperate. He point blank told you he doesn't love you.... how harsh is that. If he rode up on a white stallion with a full band playing your favorite song in the background, it still wouldn't change the fact that he no longer loves you but needs someone simply because he has no one. You can do this.... move on, Marie. You don't deserve this kind of of low life. You know it will happen again.
2007-01-06 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every dog has their day, and maybe this is payback time. A man can't just walk out on you, get thrown out of his mates and then decide that he loves you again all of a sudden. Leave him to stew in his car, perhaps if he is still there a few weeks from now and you want to give it a go, let him in to wash up and pamper you a bit before he returns to his suite on wheels. , if he truly loves you he won't mind this one little bit. If he is just looking for somewhere to doss then he will complain about everything, and you don't have to chuck him out again.
2007-01-06 09:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him sleep in the damned car the using b'stard. I hope we have a sudden cold snap. Let's go out on the town and find some decent blokes.
2007-01-06 09:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm his new girlfriend kicked him out also? Walk away, it's over.. Your living in the past. He using you. Decide if that's the relationship you want. He don't love you just wants a bed. This is from a guy btw
2007-01-06 09:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by naplusultra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi marie we share the same name lol, anyways don't feel sorry for him as he has done this to you before i think he is using you and also putting a guilt trip on you - he has obviously told you he is not happy on many of occasions so for one he must be telling the truth to keep mentioning it and two he has no better place to go at the moment his plan never worked out the way he wanted it to. i think you could do better hunny find someone who loves you for you and thinks the world of you i know you will love him as love just does not go away over night but you gotta get through it hun! i say ditch him???
2007-01-06 09:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetbabymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of this man. He's needs a place to stay and when he finds one, he's gone. If he has to sleep in his car, that's his problem. The jealousy thing is just an act, to make you think he cares. Don't be stupid. Dump him..
2007-01-06 09:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall for him,
if you believe that his change of heart has nothing to do with being homeless then go for it.
but if you have any doubt what so ever, wait and see how long he's willing to stick about,
if its only till he has onother place to stay then he abandons you again, get rid and stay rid.
good luck!
and try to find out why his mates girlfriend wouldnt let him stay sounds dodgy to me?
2007-01-06 09:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a job and find somewhere else to live. tell him that when he left you realised you didnt love him either and have decided to pursue your own happiness and hope he can too. thank him for leaving you as you have realised there is so much more out there. even if you dont mean it. dont let yourself be a doormat to this man your worth more
2007-01-07 01:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋