ok here's the deal. There's this guy and he just moved to my school this year. He's from Ohio. And Ive liked him all year. And i found out almost 2 months ago that he had liked me all year too. And before we started going out, he would go out of his way to try and talk to me and get my attention. But ever since he found out I liked him too, he stopped doing that. We've been going out for 1 month and 3 weeks. And he's already told me that he loved me. And I feel the same way. But we never get to talk. We dont have any classes together in school. The only time i see him is waiting for the bus in the afternoon. So I get to talk to him for a gran total of about 10 minutes a day. He says he doesnt 'do' phones because they make him feel too akward. So I only ever talk to him on AIM, but thats rare too. But the thing is, he is really quiet. He doesn't really ever talk to anyone. And besides a hug goodbye, he doesnt show any physical affection. So with that in mind, what's going on?
2007-01-06 08:45:38 · 16 answers · asked by Frannie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't dwell on it too much. If he says he loves you he loves you. Don't worry about it. As foir your "time together" problem, maybe after school you should go on a date or somthing, or to the movies. If he doesn't "do" phones, thats not a problem, ask him in thoes 10 minutes. Your very lucky to have a shy guy, thoes are the ones with the deeper feelings. ^_^
2007-01-06 08:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better you concetrate on your school. This guy is not interested other wise he will let you call him at least. You seem to worry too much for the guy who does not show any kind of affection. Move on you got a lot going for you you don't have to chase him after you showed he you are interesed. There is always another one waiting in the wings.
2007-01-06 16:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just like that. that he said he loves you is wonderful, but be careful. if he takes you on a real date, watch him. those quiet types will get you. but if he is sincere, leave it be. he could be scared by the possibility of a true relationship. or he could have problems at home. there was a boy from Ohio at my middle school who i later found out he ended up moving to Florida. he was a total pervert. but talk to him, let him know your there for him, and he might just open up to you.
2007-01-06 16:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Trisana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different kinds of people... he sounds like a feeling (1)or maybe even a visual (2) kind of person.... so don't expect him to become an auditory (3) kind of person anytime soon. It seems to me that you have to take initiative when it comes to taking the relationship up a notch.
2007-01-06 16:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that glitters is not Gold. You are very smart and know what's going on. You just don't want to face it.
You will always make decisions in your life so use you best judgement and execute you desire what ever it be and if the Volcano erupts...so be it.
2007-01-06 16:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you are the first love in his life
he is Shy some thats why he don wanna phone calls
i think he loves you ..
so ....try to courage him some make him feel some strong inside him ..
then he will get soo much better with you
take this love Hard to find clearly love those days
2007-01-06 16:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Yasser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He act like he has secrets so find out what he is hiding or does not want you to find out ,,,,When a guy acts this way red flags all over the place but hey how old is he ???If he is very young then its okay
2007-01-06 16:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there maybe he is shy give him time no phone do u both have a computer u can chat online or write each others letters and give it to one another after school little things like that so u get to know one another .good luck
2007-01-06 16:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be straigh up with him, he probably hiding something from the past, if he really loves you than he'll be honest with you. He probably just doesn't know how to express his love for you. maybe your his first love and you need to show him how love works. let him know that you trust him by telling him something maybe no one else knows that way he'll be more open with you. Good Luck!
2007-01-06 17:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Benny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a shy guy what seems to me so you make that extra effort towards him so that he opens up with you about his feelings..try having a Lil friend kinda chat with him than just treating him as your bf..am sure it will work.plan out some dates with him go for walks,movies am sure it will work.be more friendly to him than having just lovey-dovey talks
all the best dude
2007-01-06 16:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋