I just started going out with my BF. He was great for the first few weeks, until I found out that he smoked weed. I brushed it off at first, but then I went over his house and he brought out his pipe. He and his friend smoked, and he kept asking me if I wanted a hit. I said no each time, but when I left there I had a headache and i was ashamed of him. I don't really know what to think of him now.... Help?
2007-01-06 08:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa maybe you need to rethink of him to be a n ex boyfriend. You're not in to what he does, you don't need to be with someone who's not cool with your morals. he needs to respect the fact that you don't like the things he does. My advise is for you to meet someone who has the same interest as you do with everything.
2007-01-06 08:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 17:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy, he is a loser.
Your headache was caused from your own morals and beliefs, and despite our society (and Liberal thought) those of us who act on deeply held beliefs turn out a lot better than those that don't.
It might make you feel sad at first, but the fact is that if given the choice this guy will likely choose his buddy and his "bud".
Find another guy with higher goals in life than sitting on the couch smoking weed, you will be much happier than fighting it out with this dude.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 01:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Eric K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo had a headache cuz of the pot. if he really liked you then he would have respected you enough not to keep asking you if you wanted to hit that ****. well he dont sound like the man for you, really he dont sound like a man at all, more like a child. he is making stupid decisions in his life right now that will afect him for the rest of his life. and yours so ditch him right now before you cant get out. you sound like a good kid so find a new guy.
2007-01-06 08:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by codeman z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about his smoking problem. It's illegal for him and his friend to do that outside of medicinal purposes.
2007-01-06 08:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Blondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like it. If he cares enough about you he will kick the habit, if not then he isn't worth the hastle.
2007-01-06 08:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing weed
2007-01-06 08:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by doughboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋