I met him in 1st week of class and he sat next to me and began asking me questions like my age, job , ect. then he asks me for my number... i give him it cuz i dont want to say no... but through out the whole class he is bothering me during the lecture asking me questions and sooo annoying so the next day he is already in class seemingly waiting for me in the same spot and he asks me if i have chapstick because "his lips are burning"...EWWW then he has the balls to call my name after class ends so that i may politely wait for him, he's like your so beautiful ...i'm totally weirded out by the whole thing he says hes going to call me and he does, leaves two messages, calling me sweet heart and then he calls again at like midnite i answer the phone and i try to give him a clue and say taht dont want to be in a relationship right now and he still doesnt get it, my cell keeps dieing so i kind of give up on explaining it to him and turn off my phone, he leaves like 3 more messages!
2007-01-06 07:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by WTF? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that you are not interested in him, and then block his number from your phone or have your phone number changed...
2007-01-06 07:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy's a freak. Block his number, ask to sit away from him in class, don't create eyecontact. If the situation gets worse or if he trys to take advantage of you, then call the police immediately.
2007-01-06 07:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you are too nice, people take that for granted. If I was you, just tell him upfront that you are not interested in a relationship, and you would appreciate it if he left you alone. If that doesn't work, you may have to request a restraining order from your local precinct.
BTW, chapstick incident is gross.
2007-01-06 07:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sa_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, sounds pushy to me.
first thing, you shouldnt have gave out your number so soon. im not harping on ya but just saying.
anyway, you can either never answer his calls, get your number changed or if it gets real bad, tell a teacher or counselor. oh, and try sitting somewhere else in class. hopefully he'll get the hint.
good luck and stay safe
2007-01-06 07:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that he didnt take the clues at all you might want to be honest with him and say that you dont want to date and that his talking is interfering with your learning in school. Mention it to the teacher/proffesor.
Also, CHANGE YOUR NUMBER!
2007-01-06 07:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCT... IF INSIDE YOUR FEELING THAT THIS PERSONS BAD NEWS... HE PROBABLY IS..I'D MAKE SURE SOMEONE THAT CARES ABOUT U KNOWS ABOUT HIM..AND KNOWS WHAT CLASS HE'S IN OF YOURS AND A DESCRIPTION OF HIM WOULDN'T HURT EITHER..JUST IN CASE.
AND DO NOT LEAD THIS GUY ON U COULD BE ASKING FOR BIG TROUBLE!!
DEFINATELY SOUNDS LIKE STALKER MATERIAL TO ME..
2007-01-06 07:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house, now!
Those calls... they're coming from upstairs!
2007-01-06 07:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hogwash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
911 sweetie
2007-01-06 08:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a police report or tell him to back off
2007-01-06 07:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in his face, nicely. Tell it to him straight on, no more hints!
2007-01-06 07:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋