My friend of two years I know he cares for me alot even loves me. I feel the same way. We are adults. I love a guy who is not afraid to put all the cards on the table. I admire a guy like that. I love a direct hey girl, I love you , what are your feelings type of guy. Even over the phone is alright if he feels comfortable. In my past relationships I always had to have the initiative. Honestly, it sucks!
Where is the courage the guts of a guy who knows how to go after what and who he wants. I know, he knows I feel the same way. Do I wait or just move on?
2007-01-06 07:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still feel I want to wait, incase, am I being stupid? I do really care for him and I do Love him. I'm not planning to give up just yet. That's not who I am. I don't give up that easy. He's a very kindhearted guy who really cares about me. I truly love him for that.
2007-01-06 10:36:32 · update #1
stop encouraging him to be lazy by taking the lead each time..
take it easy and relax, it's not the end of the world. you go on a go-slow, if he's worried, he'll do something about it and take action. If not.. maybe he's not the one for you, and not interested in you in the long run, then you might like to move on.
Good luck, God bless u.
2007-01-06 07:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by just me.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what your talking about. Do you want to wait or is it not worth waiting? Or better yet just tell him how you feel take charge. He might be nervous to tell you and is hoping you'll speak up first. you know? It does get sad that you have to take the lead all the time but if taking the lead could lead you into something good then why move on in silence?
2007-01-06 15:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, when it comes to us good guys, we prefer to let the ladies make decisions, We don't want to say or do the wrong thing and get you upset with us. So we tend to wait until the lady takes the first step.
2007-01-06 15:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-01-06 15:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-06 15:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by maury williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a bit behind, and perfect.
2007-01-06 15:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Larisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk him ...tell him what's on your mind....if you don't like what you hear move on
2007-01-06 15:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by loveradsrn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tickets please all aboard the 86 train to hell.
2007-01-06 15:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋