She has been seeing someone and has become attached to him he called her on Xmas day to tell her he would be staying at home for the holidays and won't be seeing her. He called her on Sat. before NY's Eve to tell her again he would not be seeing her as he has decided to stay home. She is very hurt and has not been taking his calls. I am thinking dump the fool. She says he is not married and has been seeing him for over 3 mths.
2007-01-06 07:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by lara 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you. He at least could have the decency to talk to her and tell her he has no real interest in her. She will probably be much better off without the slacker. And, three months is nothing in the scope of a lifetime, tell her think of that.
2007-01-06 07:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People do like to spend time with their family during the holidays. Dating 3 months is a short time. Probably to early to introduce her to the family. Its best to get to know someone before you introduce them to family. How is she going to know what his intentions are if she doesn't talk to him? Time will tell what he was doing over the holidays. If she is already having trust issues, she needs to deal with her insecurities before getting in a relationship.
2007-01-06 07:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I coulve have understood being with family for Christmas but when he didnt want to be with his loved one on New Years Eve I wouldve have a problem. Something is up. She needs to sit with him and have a n open conversation with him as to how she felt when he did this nd find out why he did it. If answers are unsatiafactory.....then she should consider getting rid of him and find someone else who is desrving of her.
2007-01-06 07:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U R on the right track...dump the fool!
2007-01-06 07:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to dump him. He is either married or not interested in her.
2007-01-06 07:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by peach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's married--and if he's not, he's obviously not very interested in her. he could of stayed home and invited her over if he really wanted her company--you're right--dump him!
2007-01-06 07:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u thought the right thing dump him hes a jerk
2007-01-06 07:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by maury williams 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now something is going on.
2007-01-06 07:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by beautifulstars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him. what jerk. (not you, the bf)
2007-01-06 07:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋