The other night I stumbled across the start of a test message on my fiance's mobile. The phone was on the floor next to the chair which is unusual as it is usually on the table. I noticed it light up and when I looked it was from a female who I had never heard of saying "nite nite sweet dreams". I was in shock and told him that I had seen the message and asked who she was. He went on the defense side and firstly said he didn't know who she was, then he told me she was from work. I asked him to open up the whole message and read it in front of me. He said no, and that it was his private business but eventually did. The message read "nite nite sweet dreams text u in the morning" I asked him why she was texting him and in particular nite nite messages and he said it was probably just a laugh. He denies there is anything going on says he has done nothing wrong and would never let anyone come between us. He admits he was hiding the phone from me as he knew I would be upset.
2007-01-06 06:44:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has to hide it then he's cheating..or at least getting there. Especially if he's making excuses and you have no idea who this person is yet is being very personal with him and it's not his sister or his mother.
2007-01-06 06:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a history of cheating? Do you trust him? If yes then "let it go". I don't think that he would have done any of that if he was hiding something. When a guy is guilty he does not want to admit to anything let alone show you evidence against himself. If you are not sure about your relationship maybe you should reevaluate getting married or have a very long engagement.
2007-01-06 07:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hey ur smart.i know that hes ur fiance but u got keep going and make sure u take his phone one morning and see what the women texts. this is just a reasonable answer to ur problem if hes cheating. it might be a laugh some girl who thinks hes worth flirting with. before the marriage make sure u try to figure this out so u dont get caught having a two timer with two kids....with 2 different women...im just sayin that this is important to make sure u r good 2 gether...........
2007-01-06 06:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to see the msg to not hide things from you! Personally i think he could be cheating but im not a expert, why would he get all defences about you seeing the txt etc if there was nothing to be guilty about & why was he changing the story all the time, like saying he didnt no her, then shes someone from work, hes lyin about things like that! I wouldnt trust him, Id ask him straight out!
If he says he not cheating but you still dont think hes telling the truth, do it back, gett ppl to txt & hide your fone etc see how he likes it!
2007-01-06 06:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what i would do is when hes not looking tke his ohone to the bathroom or somwhere you wont get caught and read all o his texts involving this lady if hes true he really shouldnt mind if you want to go and ask him but be careful if he says no he will erase them so that if you do get ahold of it you wont see anything also you could have a frind maybe talk to this girl and find out what is going on from her
2007-01-06 06:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by nikki_1029876543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you really have to watch out now, he could be telling the truth,but he could be lying, so write down the number, check his e-mail ( if you can), Get a friend ( that he doesen't know) to follow him after work and so-on. Find out who this other women is. I wish you so much luck and I hope he isn't lying!
P.S. Don't let him find out you'r spying on him.
2007-01-06 06:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mike_M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is so cheating on you. I'm sorry, there is nothing worse. But it's better to find out now then latter.
2007-01-06 06:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is lying.
he is probably having an affair.
if you don't deal with it
it will probably get worse.
you don't have to prove anything.
ask him to stop texting with her
have a heart to heart and see
what is going on with him.
you have a big problem.
2007-01-06 06:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is either cheating or is planning on doing so. Don't give him a chance to break your heart. End it now.
2007-01-06 06:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋