thinks I'm stressing too much when the only reason I'm stressing is she doesn't want to work out these issues! ...and they aren't anything terrible, but if we can't work things out, it's going to be tough. These are things that mean a lot to me and... ugh... How can I do this? Any advice?
2007-01-06 06:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've already brought these things up and she simply CHANGES THE SUBJECT!!!
2007-01-06 06:44:08 · update #1
Sometimes relationships jsut don't work out- TRUST ME you do not want to be amrried to this person then- marriage is WORK A LOT- ask anyone who is married. If youc an't work things out now, how can you possibly when the honeymoon is over and you have the rest of your lives to work through things?? I think you should find someone new.
2007-01-06 07:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always seem simple for the one looking in from the outside, and all the advice in the world isn't going to change the person she is, give her an ultimatum, that should show you where your relationship really stands with her. Tell her that if she doesn't want to talk about it then you guys should separate to see how you really feel and to see what the relationship means to her she may be looking for a way out but isn't sure how to do it. Let her know how you feel about her but if she isn't willing to work on the little things you are afraid that when something big comes along your afraid the relationship might crumble, maybe all she needs is a reality check. Good luck :)
2007-01-06 15:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find ways to reduce your stress.
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2007-01-07 12:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out there and get someone that will lsn to u and is intrested in you
2007-01-06 14:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋