I started to date a Christian Girl. Not on purpose, more an accident, we just met. I am Christian too, but I hardly go to church. I strongly believe in God and came to agree to Christian values after coming a long way and a couple of poor choices in my past. But again, I am still not an "active" Christian. She goes to church a lot. ... how "are" Christian Girls? I don't consider her boring or anything, pretty much the opposite. She is cool. Us hanging out is so much fun. I don't feel any pressure from either side to "have" to take it to the next level.
So ... Christian Girls: How "are" you? Just as everybody else? Or are the certain things I should know?
2007-01-06 06:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by patrick_203060 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think we are just like everybody else, probably she´ll see the life in a more spiritual way, but she is just a girl, i don´t see any problem that you date a girl like this, maybe with the time you learn to see the life like her and u like it, maybe not, but it´s ok :)
2007-01-06 06:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by hyvheth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are just like everyone else. We have strong convictions most likely on certain moral and ethical issues but don't let that stand in your way. She may not want to take it to the next level because of these moral beliefs. That is something you should talk to her about when you feel the time is right. Don't worry about her being a christian, it just means she has certain religious beliefs but we are normal people too
2007-01-06 06:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by dallas_gal_07 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everybody wants to be loved. Don't feel obliged to love her because your love will never replace Jesus' love. You will always be second to God -- something you must come to grips with.
I suggest you make a list of things you truly believe, absolutely will not believe, and re-assess your own values. Show the list to her. If she is as flexible as you are, keep on going. If she's not, go find yourself somebody else.
If she starts to feel like a "stick in the mud," dump her. It's your life; shape it as you feel it.
2007-01-06 06:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being chrisitian doesnt make u special or .. make u odd one!... the only thng u will find diff is.. whn they get into a relationship its about emotional attachement to the guy, commitment may b, wht she wud think is diff for each gurl.. but wht she probably won't b up for is about the whole physical thng in a relationship.... but again .. talk to HER to knw wht is like!
2007-01-06 06:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian girl and here are probably somethings that are different about her...
She probably won't watch certain movies...
She probably doesn't like people to cuss around her...
I think that probably covers it...
And she probably doesn't believe in being intimate before marriage.
2007-01-06 06:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋