my girlfriend lives in another state but i go home on the week ends every now and then for a week or to but i am truthful so i go clubin because i am 21 but she is 18 and she is talking about going to clubs and getting a fake id but i know she wouldnt cheat on me but it un nerves me what do u ladies think
2007-01-06 06:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by andrew h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably has the same fears about you cheating because you already do go clubbing and you can drink. Just trust her but keep your eyes open.
2007-01-06 06:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course being a girl myself I hate the kind of boyfriend who tells me what i can and cannot do even though he himself does it. Of course you should let her do her own thing, she can't just be locked up in the house during the weekdays sitting next to the telephone waiting for your phone calls or until you come back to visit her. She needs to have a life too, she has every right to go to clubs because you get to go. If you are worried about the fake ID situation tell her since she is underage and you don't want her getting in trouble if she ever got caught then bargain with her. Say that she is allowed to go to clubs that admit 18 years olds. Since you aren't breaking any laws, you feel neither should she. Since you have so much confidence that she wouldn't cheat on you then she won't. I don't know her so I can't possibly say anything. She's probably wanting to go to the clubs to unwind after a long week of work. However, if you absolutely do not approve of her wanting to go to clubs even when they admit 18 year olds then you guys have a Unhealthy relationship. Sometimes you just have to trust yourself to trust your partner.
2007-01-06 06:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are her intentions are not to cheat....but what happens is this the right guy says the right thing and one thing leads to another she is 18yrs old very vulnerable....and you live another state...let her go out and have fun if she does it well then at least you found out early...you should be out having fun too don't stress out...make sure you tell her to use a condom if she does anything because you still want to keep her regardless if she does anything or not it's good to grow with all the girls you experience, you might need her in the future.....
2007-01-06 06:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by jess16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never got fake ids when i was 18 (Dont need them in uk) but im not that type of person any way, i cant lie about things lol I think If shes serious about you & only wants to go out with m8s you dont have to worry, Why dont you speak to her!
2007-01-06 06:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, she is being faithful. It is possible to go to a club and have fun with out hooking up. if it really bothers you, talk to her and if she doesn't see your point and how she's hurting you then it might be that shes just not ready to be in that kind of a relationship.
2007-01-06 06:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im in a similar cituation except my boyfriend is 16 years older then me and we live in different countries i mean we go see each other all the time but i completely understand so what i think you should do is express your concerns to her but let her know that you do trust her and that you will respect her decision no matter what but what ever you do dont tell her that it dosnt bother if it really does ok i hope this helps
2007-01-06 06:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by nikki_1029876543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it... she's 18 .. fake id's are what you do at 18. If you trust her... you have nothing to worry about. She just wants to have a good time.
2007-01-06 06:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both young, dint be hell bent on having a serious relationship until u are established in life..i got married when i was 18 and i felt ripped off..u have your whole life to build a great relationship with some one...and really how real is this relationship if u only see her "now and then"...just be young and live life to its fullest:)
2007-01-06 06:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I have a boyfriend I don't go to bars or clubs without him because I don't like to have them worry what I'm doing.
2007-01-06 06:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that long distance relationships never work! and if your doubting her now, then the trust issue wont get any better. try looking for someone that lives nearer and closer to your age. good luck
2007-01-06 06:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by storres512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋