I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I am very shy and very quiet and for the past couple months it has really been getting to me. I am planning on calling him and asking him to come over to my house then I want to talk to him about things I have been keeping in and why I have been keeping it all in. It is going to be extremely hard for me to do this but I'm going to do my best. I think he will understand and if he doesn't then I don't know what I'm going to do. It is so hard for me to express my feelings to people I go to school with and even people I work with. The people that I can say anything to is my family, mostly my mom and my sister. I know communication is the key in any successful relationship but I just don't have that. My new years resolution is to speak my mind about anything and I know it is going to take a while for this to happen all the time but I willing to take the time and let myself become comfortable around people. What should I do???Thank You!!!
2007-01-06 06:38:36 · 2 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before you start sharing your feelings with him make sure you are calm and tell him that its hard for you to do and then just go ahead i know it seems hard but the sooner you start and keep going the easier it will be i wish you luck
ps
one way to help you would be to practice what you are wanting to say to the person
good luck
2007-01-06 06:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, you sound like me! Just call him and write down notes in case you freeze temporarily. Try to let it all out...
2007-01-06 14:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋