I can't bring myself to break up...?

Question

with my girlfriend... I can't stand her, but I can't do it. How can I do this??!??? Thanks

she is always in a bad mood and just obsessed with Drake Bell and a bunch of stupid bands. and ignores me sometimes and talks to other people

Answer 1

You can't stand her?

Why don't you just tell her straight up that you don't see this relastionship going where she wants it, so before it gets too out of hand, it should end...thus giving her the time so she can find someone who is willing and able to treat her like she should be.

She should be pleased with this (as pleased as possible) because it's a twist on the old it's not you it's me....without it being that generic.

Answer 2

You have to ask yourself the question..."If i break up with my girlfriend, what's the worse that could possibily happen?"
And when you begin to think about it, you'll see there really is not a good enough reason to stay with someone that you are just not into. Maybe you don't want to be lonely... Hey, that's okay... or maybe you are afraid of hurting her... but in time she will get over it.
The worse thing to do is to stay with someone just because.

Answer 3

My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday. Whatever you do... do NOT SAY "It wasn't you, it was me" That is so ****ed up! (Sorry for my language...still bitter..) Just tell her why you can't stand her...women want a reason ! At least tell her what she can do for her next relationship. I know you don't want to seem like the jerk but please...please...do not use that line. It's so cliche and whatever, she's already going to think you are a jerk for dumping her. At least give her a reason as to why you did it! Not just saying it's because of you, usually women never believe that statement, although it might be true,

Answer 4

alright you have to look at it this way imagine if it was the oppsite way around and that she couldnt stand you would you really want to be in that cituaion? what you have to do is sit her down and talk one on one in private what ever you do do not do this in public especially in front of friends explain to her that you just are not as into as you used to be and that you need space and that you still want to be friends or you could use the i think we shoukd see other people line but either way she probavly will get emotional so stay strong and dont give in other wise it will get messy!!!!!!

Answer 5

Why be with someone you can't stand, let her know that you want out of the relationship, your not happy with her get it over with so you both can move on. I know it hard and it might hurt her but she need to know. She might already feel that your not happy with the relationship so do what you need to do and get it over with.

Answer 6

Use your mouth. While looking her in the face, say these words to your girlfriend very loudly:

"I want to end our relationship right now. We are not compatible."

Play the Joe Jackson song in the background for effect, "Breaking Us In Two."

You don't need luck or wishes. Just plan it and execute your plan.

Answer 7

Just do it. You can be a chicken and write her note or be a bigger chicken and have someone else do it. Give me her email address and I'll do it for you.

Answer 8

Dude, its not that hard.. believe me. It's simple.. " I feel like we need to start seeing other people" or "its not you... (long pause) its me".. ooh they hate that one. or " I feel like we are better friends than we are boyfriend/girlfriend".

Answer 9

What is that you cant actually stand about her?

Answer 10

all i can tell u is do it yourself. it will hurt her more if someone else does it for u.