I am very upset. My dad bought a new laptop. He doesn’t know that much, how to operate a pc. Whenever he would need help he used to ask me. I helped him every time without any complaint. One day when I took his laptop for my work he said, “don’t take my laptop”. He did not even have any work at that time. Since then I did not even touch his dumb laptop. But how could be he so mean? I helped him so much and why did he behave like this? Otherwise also he is troublesome, always shouting and fighting.
2007-01-06 06:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by lavender 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey do not worry. you just stop helping him with the pc problems. you do not use his computer if he does not want you to use. but next time say NO when he asks for help.
2007-01-07 05:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear lavender
dont be sad
u know parents are sometimes very strang and as u are saying that ur father is always in a bad mood so dont bother so much
i at ur place wouldnt ask him again but if u need the laptop just ask him while having dinner when ur mom has cooked some delicious food. at that time men are usually in a good mood
good luck
:D
2007-01-06 14:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mesmerising Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear asker ,
I agree . this happens with my sister all the time . Simply sit youre dad down and ask him ! Here are some questions you could ask him .
Dad , i've been helping you with youre laptop adn the one time i ask to use it you say no why ?
Dad why are you always mad ?
stuff like that ! hope that works bye
2007-01-06 14:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Charliegirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing to worry about!!! If your dad doesn't want you to touch her laptop, perhaps it's just because there are some personal things in it which he doesn't want you to see. And also next time, you NEVER help him, okay!!!!
2007-01-07 09:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by Neha A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all this is common in ones life just try to go to ur father and start praising him and keep giving much importance to him in ur day to day life also. most important thing is try to let him know in one way or the other that u r very much thank full to him and also u love to be with him but just remember one thing no father will say or feel that he dont like his child or he had grudge against his child all that ur father wants is LOVE just give it as much as u can
2007-01-06 14:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by vls 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be your father passing through some unstable phase in his workplace or with his wife. Is he like this only since you are observing him? Talk to your mother. You only can sort it out by sitting together in a cool mood.
2007-01-06 14:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by ranush 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps your father is old person and in this stage some changes are appeared in old age. So don't be bother because it harms you more. Be pataint and do your work silently don't enterfare with your fathers things. But don't egnore him always do better for him.
2007-01-07 10:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Alexius T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was probably some **** on it. If your dad insists on being mean, perhaps you should be mean as well. The next time he leaves his laptop alone you need to spring into action. Grab it, take it to Starbucks and leave it there. That will teach him that being a meanie isn't cool.
2007-01-06 14:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
ur dad is probably a control freak and maybe he had somethings on there he didn't want u to see or maybe his worried that u might damage his PC ? next time he wants help say u don't know what to do .. that will teach him to say no ...maybe
2007-01-06 22:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he was afraid of all the net scams that are supposed to get you in their net! Whatever is his reason, talk to him about it and tell him how you were hurt by his reaction and whether he really thought that you would do something to damage it?
2007-01-07 10:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋