I'M ONLY 15....but anyway how do guys like to be touched that feels like it's flirtatious or makes them want to melt
2007-01-06 06:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just simply touch then on the leg, every once in a while put your hand on their faces, or the one guys seem to like the best is when you lay or head on their shoulder or yu just put yourself close to them without them havin to pull you into them.
2007-01-06 06:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a straight guy, a woman's gentle touch to my shoulder is all but irresistible. Note: it's most effective if you're both standing; otherwise, there's a chance it might be misinterpreted.
Be VERY careful using physical communication: it can easily convey an urgency of desire for physical union that far exceeds what you actually intend to signal.
If he responds positively to the shoulder touch, you may advance to "goosing" his torso or gliding your palm a short distance along his torso.
This usually evolves into your resting first one (and eventually, both) of your hands on his chest; shortly after you reach that level of physical comfort with each other, the pressing of your lips together is all but guaranteed.
From that, things usually progress to hand-holding.
That's followed by the wrapping around each other of your respective arms (ordinarily this means both of you facing roughly the same direction, and your arm touching his back and/or his arm touching your back, so that the hand of that arm rests on the other person either in the lower rib or "love handle" area or on the shoulder.
The touching of buttocks, female breasts, genitals or the groin, or thighs generally does not occur until the relationship has reached the (pre-sexual intercourse) "petting" stage (also known as the "foreplay" stage, although that's not an entirely accurate designation).
Somewhere along the way, he will initiate his own touching of you. How you respond to his touches will determine how quickly the relationship progresses to sexual intercourse.
2007-01-06 08:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holding his hands is probably a good start. touching his legs or abs or pretty much any other part is a little creepy unless there is a good excuse for it. a good excuse is when he complains that he hurts his leg or something close to that.
2007-01-06 06:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by bababa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touch his hart with kind and lots of love
2007-01-06 07:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anuasi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thigh, abs, holding hands, etc.
2007-01-06 06:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋