I have a question for men out there. Why would you be scared if your gilfriends suggested to move in together? My boyfriend lives in a very small flat in a very expensive city. He is trying to establish his career so I know he is under quite a lot of pressure. I mentioned to him the other day that we could try to live together but he got all scared telling me that he is not ready for that? Does it mean he does not love me and I am not the girl for him?
2007-01-06 06:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes his own space..nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-06 06:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for men only, but I had to answer.People can love someone but still have a sensible head on their shoulders. It sounds like this chap knows what he wants and it's not to be tied down just yet. He wants to keep his freedom; a place to run back to if things go wrong in a relationship. He may love you, but he is a sensible and practicable person. I would respect that - it makes it easier for all around if there is a break down, - he's the sort of man any woman should keep an eye on - he's dependable and caring.
2007-01-06 07:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the considered cheating come into your ideas? He does not think of he's waiting for the flow to living jointly ask him how approximately you finding an house in his city. If he's against it i could re-examine the relationship. If with in 18 months a mans undecided if his relationship together with his lady pal is in a position to get closer i could ought to ask your self why no longer? good success i desire he says he could like it in case you moved closer yet I surely have the sensation he wont be. i like to furnish everybody a earnings of doubt yet I doubt his honesty to you.. J
2016-11-27 00:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he thinks you're getting possessive and asking for a commitment. Most women want relationships a lot earlier than most men. His scared reaction is telling you what his words were: he's not ready. But at least he was honest! Give him his space or you'll soon be on your own again.
2007-01-06 06:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back of from him slightly,
Wait for him to ask you to move in.
He may not be ready to settle down.
Have fun with your friends
2007-01-06 06:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS PROBABLY LIVING WITH SOMEONE ELSE
2007-01-06 06:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋