my boyfriend and my friend are always hugging and flirting and they never seem to stop and they are always with each other or talking about each other so i dunno what to do???help me!?!!?
2007-01-06 06:13:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
dump him. you don't deserve him doing that to you.
2007-01-06 06:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's a safe bet to assume they are cheating or getting ready to. my advice would be to dump them both, since the guy will likely cheat again even if you do get him back, and the girl can't be too good a friend if she will cheat with your boyfriend.
I had this happen to me and trust me, taking the cheater back is almost never worth the effort. In my case the girl had several guys going and told me about one after I caught her in a lie. then a few weeks later I find out that she's with two others.
get over him and move on.
2007-01-06 14:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by chris r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is always with her and they are always talking about each other then you should sit him down and have a long talk with him. Ask him what he wants and tell him that if he would rather ave her then go get her because you dont need the drama. Or you could also just pop in unexpected and see if you can see anything going on behind your back. Good Luck and hope this helps
2007-01-06 14:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOO dont just dump him all of a sudden! If all they do if hug and act flirty then thats no reason to just forget about both of them.
Just ask your friend to not be as flirty, she may not even realize shes doing it!
If shes really flirty with other guys then most likely they dont have anything going on, maybe she just likes getting a lil attention every now & then!
Then talk to your boyfriend and tell him you feel like you're being left out, and just talk it out with him!
Everything will work out ok as long as you dont take too drastic measures!
Good luck!
2007-01-07 00:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh. You have low self-esteem. You need him to disrespect you because, frankly, it's exciting. Bad boys are always exciting.
I think you should stick with him. He can only make you feel more and more excited as he treats you worse and worse. There's no reason for him not to. You let him get away with it!
Maybe he'll give you an STD from someone else who will do it with him. That will be really exciting as you try to cure it, if you can. Maybe he'll get you and another girl pregnant at the same time. Even more exciting!
Being emotionally and physically abused is the best drug you'll ever take in your life! Get as much of it as you can. So exciting.
;)
2007-01-06 14:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation and found out that he was cheating. Chances are if you notice, then others notice also. Who wants to be the girl that got cheated on and everyone knew about it it but her? Approach him and let him know that it makes you uncomfortable and ask. If is important to be open and honest in a relationship. If he says that nothing is going on then ask your friend and after she confirms it break up with him!
2007-01-06 14:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not meet with both of them at the same time and tell them your thoughts. I think that's the best way to solve this problem. Don't dump him just because you think he might be cheating. Get all the facts first!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-06 14:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Power10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your friend and if she does like your boyfriend then tell her that you love him and you want to still be friends with her, but she must stop flirting in front or behind your back.
2007-01-06 14:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your situation. if you really like him and that friend is a good friend then you should try to talk things out. and if your friend and your boyfriend do have something going on and it's beyond flirting they are both doing you a favor by showing you what kind of person they really are.
2007-01-06 14:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Cancer Crab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dump him and your friend. I saw this happen before and they ended up together and the poor girl was left out.
2007-01-06 14:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to him and her and tell them how it bothers you. If there is nothing going on then you shouldn't dfump him though. If they continue to be touchy-feely after you told them it makes you uncomfortable then you should dump him though.
2007-01-06 14:21:33 · answer #11 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋