okay so my Bf n I broke up 2 months ago..we were going out for 9 months n before that he was my best friend.
We broke up coz he cheated on me for another girl who would let him have sex with her. BTW
( she had 6 abortions) Anyways yea On 1st Jan , she called me and told me tat they broke up ( her n I usually talk on fone) i was happy for me and her..b'coz he is not a rite guy for ANY1
but today i checked her website where she posted more pics of him n her..
So they r back together again..
This all makes me feel hurt, i tell myself that i dunt love him.. but deep inside i still have feelings for him and i love him
I know what he did wid me was wrong.. but i just cant forget all the memories, things etc..
I Really Loved/Love Him a Lot...
i dont know wut to do.. its killing me
i mite seem happy from outside but inside i m dying of pain...!!
please make me understand something!!
i freaking cry every nite for him for no reason.. & he was my first bf!!
please.....!
2007-01-06 06:10:10 · 8 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I can relate. It's part of life. Time will heal all. Get another bo & go on with your life. My heart has been crushed so many times I really thought about tattooing HOLLOW MAN across my back.. Glad I haven't. It just takes time. Sorry, I hope this helps you, Good luck
2007-01-06 06:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blues Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap honey, I'm in this position too. I'm finding that it's best not to dwell on what they are up to together or how good he may treat her, 'cos he'll revert to betraying her in time. In fact the memories are made more golden by his absence try to rec collect some of the awful rows too. You are pro bally going to find a lovely man who will be as Honourable as you deserve. You have to kiss a few frogs first though. You are stronger than you think. Good luck
2016-05-22 23:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Do not see him for two months at least and go out and have fun. Keep yourself busy so you forget about him. Join a exercise class or something. Also, you need to forget about him because you say he's not the right guy for anyone. That sounds obsessive. You should stop talking to the girl too because she's not your friend if she would sleep with your boyfriend.
2007-01-06 06:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt but be strong. Trust me I've been there and no matter how much you thought you loved him, it will fade. With some situations you always feel a sting but it too fades with time. There will be other hunks and babes for you to chose one day. Just always chose up.
Iwas in one so deep that it took me 6 mths to stop crying and 1 yr to get over it. But I did and I fell in love again and now when I look back all I can do is shake my head and smile at how stupid I was.
Honey. IT WILL PASS. Just give it time.
2007-01-06 06:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss pet dogs when they die, but eventually you get another pet.
So it is with BF's...at first, it hurts to not be with them, but eventually the pain subsides and you move on with your life.
Find comfort in the fact that you are not alone. There are many people out there who feel the same as you do right now.
Good luck finding Mr. Right. I seriously doubt that your old BF is Mr. Right for you. What is the phrase..."once a cheater, always a cheater."??
I am sure you deserve better.
2007-01-06 06:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you is all you need to understand. People will only treat you with the amount of respect that you demand.
As for the girl. Is she your friend or not? If she is, then why are you telling her business about abortions (if that is even true) and why would she be with your BF? If you guys aren't friends, then why would you talk on the phone with her?
2007-01-06 06:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your answer straight and clear.
I have a crush on this gay but he bully's my wee bro and i said i would never talk to him again, But deep down really i still have felling for him and i can't stop talking to him. So your problem is that either still have feeling for him or you either just didn't want to let him go! :-(
p.s. you can find somebody else that has the same personality as him you know what i mean!
2007-01-06 06:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no therapist or anything, but you need to do something to improve your self-esteem so you will realize you are too good for some jerk who is just looking to get into somebodys pants
2007-01-06 06:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋