okay so my Bf n I broke up 2 months ago..we were going out for 9 months n before that he was my best friend.
We broke up coz he cheated on me for another girl who would let him have sex with her. BTW
( she had 6 abortions) Anyways yea On 1st Jan , she called me and told me tat they broke up ( her n I usually talk on fone) i was happy for me and her..b'coz he is not a rite guy for ANY1
but today i checked her website where she posted more pics of him n her..
So they r back together again..
This all makes me feel hurt, i tell myself that i dunt love him.. but deep inside i still have feelings for him and i love him
I know what he did wid me was wrong.. but i just cant forget all the memories, things etc..
I Really Loved/Love Him a Lot...
i dont know wut to do.. its killing me
i mite seem happy from outside but inside i m dying of pain...!!
please make me understand something!!
i freaking cry every nite for him for no reason.. & he was my first bf!!
please.....!
2007-01-06 06:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u still love him....time will help you get over it thats all i can tell you
2007-01-06 06:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by james p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Snap honey, I'm in this position too. I'm finding that it's best not to dwell on what they are up to together or how good he may treat her, 'cos he'll revert to betraying her in time. In fact the memories are made more golden by his absence try to rec collect some of the awful rows too. You are pro bally going to find a lovely man who will be as Honourable as you deserve. You have to kiss a few frogs first though.
You are stronger than you think. Good luck
2007-01-06 19:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about this :( As he's your first b/f it'll probably hurt a lot as it's a new experience (it did with me and my first true g/f), but you'll eventually get over him. Breaking up hurts a little less each time, and It's a learning process, eventually you'll find the right guy for you. Good luck and happy hunting.
2007-01-06 14:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chay D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U STILL LOVE HIM.....
"It's hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does........"
Take your time... and let this pass off.... u shall get over him...
But "Life is too short n there r many things left undone, so live for every moment to njoy its worth... instead thinking abt the past and making your life worser ..."...
Hope u get a good one soon... all the best...
2007-01-06 15:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Why Me ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all that u need to have is to make it clear abt this line frm ur question post;;;;
".....I Really Loved/Love Him a Lot... ..."
u've to 1st make this 1 clear n then u'll find some bolt out of the sky... is that clear..
sure u'll feel my answer an irritatin one but the real thing is u r stil livin him despit his betrayal........
but think wil it work in ur futur to live wth him..
think n tak decision.. all the best
2007-01-06 14:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by ranjith_asp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its natural coz nobdy can fprget their 1st luv n don't care 4 him coz y do u need 2 luv some1 who doesn't luv u anymore
But don't loose hope
anyting can happen at any moment!!!!!
Take care sweety!!!!!!!
2007-01-07 15:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still like him and that is normal but remeber this get A NEW GUY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM DO THE SAME THING HE DID
2007-01-06 14:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Joben Behanan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo :( thats soo sad
i hope u find the RIGHT one and be happy
these guys they always make us sad :(
2007-01-06 14:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mesmerising Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them what a use for your cry . avoid these fellows
2007-01-06 21:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋