Ok so i have noticed lately that something is weird with me when it comes to guys, i like them, i love to get their attention, and i have crushes on a lot of them, but when it comes to being close and cuddly, i automatically try to get farther away from them, like im on vaca ok, and i met this guy i liked and we talked and hung out, n then he started touching me, putting his arm around me and stuff, and then i automatically lost all feeling for him, and wanted him to go away and not see him again, i just dont get it, like with my last boyfriend, i didnt really want to kiss him or anything i just like to cuddle a bit, but ahh im so confused because, this happens a lot, i see in the movies the amazing romance they have and i say i would love that, but i keep pushing people away, but for no reason, or maybe its just that i dont like them i just dont know, im so confused and frustrated with myself, i want to be close and intimate, but i dont know how to get myself to be....please help!!
2007-01-06 06:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your not really ready for a relationship with a guy. Maybe you just like guys for friends. I have always liked to be touched by men even if it's just them holding my hand or hugging me. I am now married for the 2nd time.
2007-01-06 06:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called "intimacy issues". Speak with a counselor/therapist.
2007-01-06 06:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your afraid of committement. or maybe your afraid if that they get too close ..then one day they might just leave. talk to someone about it
2007-01-06 06:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by j yanks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋