okay so my Bf n I broke up 2 months ago..we were going out for 9 months n before that he was my best friend.
We broke up coz he cheated on me for another girl who would let him have sex with her. BTW
( she had 6 abortions) Anyways yea On 1st Jan , she called me and told me tat they broke up ( her n I usually talk on fone) i was happy for me and her..b'coz he is not a rite guy for ANY1
but today i checked her website where she posted more pics of him n her..
So they r back together again..
This all makes me feel hurt, i tell myself that i dunt love him.. but deep inside i still have feelings for him and i love him
I know what he did wid me was wrong.. but i just cant forget all the memories, things etc..
I Really Loved/Love Him a Lot...
i dont know wut to do.. its killing me
i mite seem happy from outside but inside i m dying of pain...!!
please make me understand something!!
i freaking cry every nite for him for no reason.. & he was my first bf!!
please.....!
2007-01-06 06:04:28 · 5 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this bluntly;
Why in the world would I want to be with anybody that doesn't want to be with me?
Don't I deserve someone who wants to be with me?
2007-01-06 06:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is weird i mean i had the same experience--this guy who i was dating for a little while used me to realize he wanted his exgf back just because she had sex w/ him all the time and i wasnt easy. you have to ask yourself this... do you really love him? i mean at night do you cry yourself to sleep b/c maybe you're feelings were hurt so bad and now you are thinking about what you shouldve done in the past that wouldve made it work out? its so common for us to feel like we've been in love since we've lost someone but its confusing b/c things like jealousy and old memories come back and we go insaine thinking that there was really a connectino there. my advice to you is to move on.. find a hobby (ive been sketching/ excersizing a lot recently) to help yourself forget about him. get rid of that stress/ emotions and realiize that even if you did get back wt him, you would probably end up getting hurt again. if there was truly something between you both, he wouldnt have cheated...simple as that. show him that you are strong enough to move on and live your own life without him. you do not deserve/ want to live with a guy that treats you like that anyway.
2007-01-06 06:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by alaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is ur first love and sometime you try to let go of a guy and you push him away because of the horrible things he did to you, but he always will find a way back into your heart. its totally normal. you will soon find a guy though that you will love everything about him and he won't hurt you like that and that is when this guy will no longer find a way into your heart again. all i can say to you is wait it out, don't try forcing a relationship with someone else, let destiny happen, and then you will forgot about this guy.
hope i helped :] best of luck!
2007-01-06 06:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision. The girl is a s***. Don't waste your tears and energy over an a****** like your ex bf. You deserve someone better than him.
2007-01-06 06:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats understandable.....this always happens with that first "love".....it will take time to get over it, so spend time doing things you like, in order to keep you busy. dont think about guys, just stay busy and eat the occasional haagen dazs
2007-01-06 06:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋