I have this best friend whom I have every class with. We always talk and sometimes we fight, but we never stay mad at each other long. I like him but don't know where friendship should end and where relationship should begin. What should I do?
2007-01-06 06:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by theonewiththequestions_13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask when you two are alone , if he wants a relationship
2007-01-06 06:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems strange that if you two are as close and compatible as you wrote, why hasn't he asked you out?? Guys usually don't take long to do such things with a girl. They don't usually just want to be friends only. Women usually control that. Do you think there a chance he might be gay? Nothing wrong with that, but he should be honest about it with you. Especially if you are good friends.
Are you doing things to let him know you are interested or attracted to him? Flirting? Complimenting? Building his ego?
You could also talk about different dating experiences. Describe a fun date idea, etc. Then in the course of that conversation ask him what he thinks it would be like if you two dated. He may ask that question before you can if it's crossed his mind. Then you two can go to a movie or dinner and find out.
2007-01-06 06:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by briardan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, friendship ends where relationships begin. There is no when. At least that is how it is with guys. Guys have a girlfriend and their best friend is mostly a guy. With a girl, they have a boyfriend and many times their best friend could be a guy or girl.
Guys get jealous, protective and such when they are boyfriends. Best friends are concerned with making you happy and finding you someone special!
Thats besides the point... I would say ask him out...
Nothing Ventured,
Noting Gained!
2007-01-06 06:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and ahve a chat with him and maybe ask him a few questions about how he feels, is he interested in anyone, who... he might have the same feelings for you and maybe he is just waiting for the right time to say it or is too shy and is waiting for you to make the first move... Good luck hun!
2007-01-06 06:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it always sucks when you have a friend, a best friend @ that and eventually you find them attractive. I would probably let him know how I feel towards him, and see what happens from there. Just be urself, and tell him what's been on ur mind..k..good luck hun!
2007-01-06 06:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is into you, chances are he'll ask you out.
Does he ever talk about dating? What kind of girl does he like?
Since you all are best friends. Why not draw him out with questions. Find out if he likes you that way.
2007-01-06 06:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO for it. The worst thing that could happen is he says no. The sky won't fall and the sun will still come up. Besides if you don't ask him out how will you ever get him?
2007-01-06 06:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what I tell everybody. Just tell him!!!! He might feel the same. You never know and you never will until you talk to him.
2007-01-06 06:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask he'll ask you when the right time comes and don't tell him you like like him unless he asks.
2007-01-06 06:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont know until you try it out. if you think he likes you too, then go for it. go out on one date and see how it is. you never until you try and see if its good.
2007-01-06 06:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋