they have done it a few times and admits they like me begging after them as they don't get attention any other way. i have held off for seven hours now. i love this person but don't want them to get the satisfaction of me begging after them. this person obviously loves me very much but i feel is an attention seeker. should i get in touch or wait? no nasty or weird answers please!
2007-01-06 05:52:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the things is she tells alot of lies, she is basically f*cked up. but we have been together 3 years but shes suddenly gone very strange. she loves me but constantly tells me i don't give enough attention. this is her way but today is the first day i havn't kept foning her etc. i think i finally realise i want a better life
2007-01-06 05:58:59 · update #1
Ok. first off, do you really want to keep putting yourself through this torture? Breaking up and getting back together all the time can get very stressful and exhausting. You have to ask yourself, does she really love you? Or is your attention span so far in the other direction that she is taking drastic measures to get it? Ask her, what am I not giving you that you feel you have to leave me to try to get me to notice? I know you've probably heard it a million times over, but communication is the key. Sometimes you can't fix what you don't know is broken. It is perfectly normal to hit a bump in the road, but explain that it can just be an argument and doesn't mean a breakup.
2007-01-06 06:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very immature to me. I'm not sure how old you are, but her games shouldn't be acceptable. Especially when it's to the point that she EXPECTS you to come begging.....
DON'T do it, and you'll be doing yourself a favor. If you love each other, act like it. Maybe you should talk honestly, about how she feels....(insecure, left out, whatever.....)
2007-01-06 13:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should talk to that person about it first. ask them that you really love them bu tyou dont like it how they just do it for attention. because sooner or later they cant do that all the time. talk to that person first. work things out and see if you still want to be together. i had the same thing happen to me but i didnt want it anymore. because he would constantly lie to me and things like that so he could get my attention. thats something you cant deal with. but, talk with them first , thats important.
2007-01-06 13:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you she wouldn't be playing these kinds of childish games. Tell her the next time she pulls this shyt she's history and just make sure you stick by what you say.
2007-01-06 13:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop playing games. A person can only be hurt so many times. I think she's being selfish and you should totally call her on it.
2007-01-06 13:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ella727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games. One of you needs to grow up. So why not let it be you. Leave her alone and find another partner.
2007-01-06 13:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and then tell your partner your sick of the games
2007-01-06 13:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋