but i really like him and i sit next to him in one of my classes so its not like i can just ignore him, and he always talks to me and makes me laugh. we're just friends and i wouldn't mind if we were more, but all the girlfriends he's ever had were popular and really hot, and i'm not not popular, slightly heavy, and not very attractive
2007-01-06 05:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by lovebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
UM! No guy is out of your league honey, I don't care how unpopular you are! Drop that notion immediately and embrace your inner fabulousness. Chances are that this guy is only looking for one thing, and can get it from any skank at that school!I went through the same thing when I was in high school. I bet you think about him all the time, and imagine yourself as his girlfriend. TRUST ME! It will not be as great as you play it up to be in your head. Just accept the friendship you have with him, and if you feel like the vibe is getting more than friendly, go with it. If that day never comes that's ok too. It sounds like you could probably learn a lot from this guy. You should just ask him why he likes the girls he does. If he says something like "they are so pretty blah blah" , you don't wanna date him anyway!
Remember that it's all about how you perceive yourself...stop doubting yourself cause you probably have more depth than any of those girls he has dated in the past!
...if all else fails, just tell him you like him on graduation day and lay a big smooch on him...WHY NOT!?
2007-01-06 05:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heavy friends and x heavy friends I love to be around. You being heavy dsnt mean you cant go to the gym and work it out with sum regular sit ups. Put ur mind to it and u'll be slim. Now the whole issue about this LOVE has to be resolved but wait a bit. It may be a major crush and foolish actions could be... unpleasant. I would advise that you simply wait it out. keep the friends relationship. It sounds like it has a more favourable fate
2007-01-06 13:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Theodore S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him! Your relationship may be platonic at first, but his perception of you will change in time. He will begin to 'see' your desirable qualities. You know for a fact those 'popular girls' have a lot left to be desired (otherwise, wouldn't he have a steady girlfriend, not several?)
If nothing ever moves further, oh well, you can say you did get to enjoy the time you had with him (when he was truly 'yours' during those class periods)
2007-01-06 13:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could happen, just work on yourself and focus on being his friend. Don't obsess about him tho. I hate to say this but you should kiss dating gooodbye. Not share your heart with anyone until you are ready to get married, plain and simple. Then you won't get hurt. I am 29 and I have only had two bfs my whole life and my current boyfriend and I are engaged. I have been lucky to not have excess baggage and heartache, but I did my own thing thruout highschool and college and I did not share my heart with guys who I knew were not going to marry me.
2007-01-06 13:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off get more self esteem. No one is "out of your league" if he is popular, cute, rich whatever that doesnt make him better than you. Just ask him out see what happens.
2007-01-06 13:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl popularity has nothing do with it strut your stuff you have nothing to be ashamed of. Try talking to him obviously he thinks enough of you to even talk to you so try taking it from there. Good Luck. Peace and Blessings
2007-01-06 13:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋