I met a girl on new year's night and we both flirted with one another for a while. I eventualy asked her for her number and she said it was unexpected, while kind of smiling. Then before I could move my phone, she gave it to me no questions asked. She then told me she had just gotten out of a relationship, that's why she was taken by surprise. I asked her if it was still ok and she said yes, she still wanted me to call. She smiled and then said "You're very nice and considerate. Thank you".
Then after that, she didn't talk to me as much, but liked when I asked if a friend she tried introducing me to was as pretty as her. She had a big smile after that.....but she ended up talking and giving her number to another guy.
Then a guy friend of hers, who I knew for about 89 minutes......He told me I was communicating wrong and giving off "the wrong body language". Personally, I thought I was fine, but he said I hung around too much
Is it better I don't call? What's going on?
2007-01-06 05:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't call from what you have written it looks like she wants to play the field if she just broke up with someone, you wanting to be serious with her is never going to happen sit back and wait. i personally would really like to say to you move on, there are so many others out there. she is def. not one of them right now.
2007-01-06 05:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's on the rebound...probably shell shocked. Also, she said you were "nice and considerate". I would take that as an offer of "just want to be friends". Slow down, try the friend thing, or give it up. Doesn't look like very good chemistry at all, especially since she was giving her number to others also. Keep looking and be casual...
2007-01-06 13:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call, I think she is just playing the field for a while by the sounds of it. If she really did like you and is interested I think she can find you, just sounds like to me she was playing games with a lot of guys that night. Just let it go for now.
2007-01-06 13:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by passionannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. You cannot trust the advise of someone you met 89 minutes ago.
2007-01-06 13:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you listen to a "guy" friend of hers? have you no clue what c0ck blocking is??? You should call her and ignore what some 'guy' said. You need to step up and be a Man, not just some guy...
2007-01-06 13:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you the number, go ahead man call her. She's into ya. Ignore the other guy.
2007-01-06 13:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her whats going on. why is she flirting around with other guys if she likes u? ask her call her up and get together and confront her. easy as pie.
2007-01-06 13:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man, it sounds like she is taking advantage of you
2007-01-06 13:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by f00tball77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her. she gave you her number, and no relationship starts out committed at the start anyway!!
2007-01-06 13:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just got out of a relationship so watch out that you are not coming on too strong. you might scare her away.
2007-01-06 13:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋