when you date a girl 2-3 times and ask for sex, she thinks " All men want is only one thing, sex ! " . On the other hand, if I do not ask for sex, she thinks, " He is not physically attracted to me, he does not like me, he is carrying baggage from his previous marriage, he is probably gay, etc."
What a man to do ?
2007-01-06 05:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, from a girls perspective...
Asking for sex after only dating 2-3 times would say to me that your only after that. I think that after only 3 dates, a more appropriate way to show the girl that you are physically attracted to her would be to compliment her and make her feel it, not just hear or see it. Then, when the time is right and if you both want to, it will just happen.
My husband and I dated for 3 months before having sex. We did other things, don't get me wrong, but we both wanted it to be special (no, niether of us were virgins...in fact, far from it). Then, when it did happen, we didn't "ask" eachother...one thing just led to another and niether stopped it. That's how we knew we were both ok with it.
I hope this gives you a little insight as to what a girl thinks (at least, this girl)
Good luck in the future...when the right one comes along, you will know it :)
2007-01-06 05:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Newmomofone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so maybe you should ask for making out or something rather than sex. Tell her how sexy she looks and talk about having sex when you start gettign the signals from her, don't push her but make sure she knows you think's she's attractive..... You can also ask when she would be comfortable having sex rather than just pressuring her for it.
2007-01-06 13:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...a man should first learn to say "what is a man to do", that might help you score a bit higher with the ladies. 2nd...dont date 2-3 times and expect sex. 3rd, just wait for the girl to want sex.
2007-01-06 13:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by temujin556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be considerate and follow her lead and just ENJOY each other ... Sex complicates relationships that are starting out... most times. Most of all stop worrying, I am sure you show her in other ways that shes attractive to you.. Respect goes a VERY long way...
Best of Luck
2007-01-06 13:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by thebe_gl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2-3 times and already you want sex. weak. you dont ask for sex. you make a romantic dinner, have things that will suprise and make her happy and then sex just happens. dont ask for it since you've only started going out.
2007-01-06 13:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋