Am I being realistic into thinking my boyfriend and I can have a healthy relationship if we both live in different countries? He lives across the border. I really want to try this. I love him and we have a babygirl together.
2007-01-06 05:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by escudero1969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two are devoted enough, it will work. My brother and his girlfriend have been together for about 6 years and they have always lived in separate states... They visit each other every week or so and they have a cell phone plan that allows them to talk to each other for free so they're in constant contact. The weekly visits only started like a year or two ago.
Oh, my brother was about 17 when he started this relationship and she was 19.
2007-01-06 05:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work out if you really want it too. However, I would assume you have plans to live together in the same country at some point?
2007-01-06 13:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it worked long enough to have a child together.
You two need to have a serious talk about the future.
However the more important issue here is making sure your daughter has some sort of relationship with her father.
2007-01-06 13:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly "have a chance." I've always heard it said, that love will find a way. Indeed, you are in situation whose difficulty is unfathomable for most (including myself). Since you do have a child together, to stick with it will be as rewarding.
Just don't lose touch; communicate often.
2007-01-06 13:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you both live in different countries?
2007-01-06 13:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and you can live in the same country~!
2007-01-06 13:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distances never matters its ur love in ur heart dat make distances converge and its ur will 2 be happy wid each other! ofcourse physical relationship matters but its the emotional side which is da basses of true luv!
2007-01-06 13:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love conquers all. Keep praying and believing and God will do wonderful things for you both.
2007-01-06 13:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it will work out for you but give it a try good luck
2007-01-06 13:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hav a child than u hav a MUCH better chance of making it...how often do u see each other...if its kinda often than u hav a chance....try and move closer together...try ne thing to make it work!
2007-01-06 13:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋