since august 2006 ive been friends with this girl that i care about and even though i know she care about me she have told me time and time again that we just gonna b friends and i dont think i cant handled that but i do like our friendship..... i know she b with other guys and she havin sex with them when i cant even get a hug messed up i know .... everytime i say imma stopp hanging with her i start missing her and we end up hanging out again.... i wanted to walk away but cant because the friendship is good i just cant get any farther with her as far as that friendship.... i keep thinking that maybe if i hang around long enough it would happen but honestly i dont even see it anymore.... so tell me should i stay friends with her?
2007-01-06 05:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by dt l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u value your friendship more? or are u more concerned with the possibility of her changing her mind? if u can maintain your feelings and stay friends,then u should but if u keep falling for her more than u r going 2 have 2 leave because it probably hurts a lot 2 see her with other people while u r falling deeper 4 her. so u have 2 decide what is more important.
2007-01-06 05:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be seriously crazy?! Listen to me. A friendship isnt based on sex or desire for it. It is based on the fact that you like to hang out with her. You wanting to go out with her is sexual desire and not related to your friendship. Read Charles Dickens book about Great Expectations and come bcak witha new expectation of your relatoionship with her. Take a careful look at estella's life, motive of living and how she treated the men i her life.
2007-01-06 13:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Theodore S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just when you least expect it, if you aren't looking, someone new will enter your life. Wait for it! This girl obviously only likes you as a friend, so you must accept that. Go out with your other male friends and meet some new and interesting people. Make yourself happy! To be happy with yourself, will attract others to you!
Best of luck! :)
2007-01-06 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are all over the place first of all if you are gonna be friends friends should not be getting mad over who she sleeps with or whether or not they get a hug if you are gonna be friends with this girl all you have to do is be there for her whenever she needs you okay and stop tripping over who she sleeps with it is of no concern to you FRIEND!!
2007-01-06 13:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋