I met a girl on new year's night and we both flirted with one another for a while. I eventualy asked her for her number and she said it was unexpected, while kind of smiling. Then before I could move my phone, she gave it to me no questions asked. She then told me she had just gotten out of a relationship, that's why she was taken by surprise. I asked her if it was still ok and she said yes, she still wanted me to call. She smiled and then said "You're very nice and considerate. Thank you".
Then after that, she didn't talk to me as much, but liked when I asked if a friend she tried introducing me to was as pretty as her. She had a big smile after that.....but she ended up talking and giving her number to another guy.
Then a guy friend of hers, who I knew for about 89 minutes......He told me I was communicating wrong and giving off "the wrong body language". Personally, I thought I was fine, but he said I hung around too much
Is it better I don't call? What's going on?
2007-01-06 05:15:07 · 3 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and that (we both knew he was talking about that girl without naming names) him and I were "average frustrated chumps". He then recommended me a book for picking up women. First off, I'm not reading a book, I'd rather be myself. Secondly, he also put himself down and gave me his email. It's like he confided so much in me but it was odd because he backtracked what he said a bit and it became "well most of the guys HERE don't know how to communicate right. I told him flat out I didn't know where he was going with all this.
After that, should I bother calling? What was his deal. I must have mingled and talked to everyone there, and those I didnt know I introduced myself briefly but didn't overstay my welcome. And no one seemed uncomfortable or felt it was forced. Why was I getting a lecture about "body language"?
2007-01-06 05:18:04 · update #1
Don't call her. Move on. And your friend that told you, you hung around to long needs to get a life.
2007-01-06 05:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call. im not sure whats going on but not calling could cause more problems.
good luck! =]
2007-01-06 13:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure about that
2007-01-06 13:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋