I am a 13 year old boy. I fancy this girl who is one of my good friends. How do i make a good impresion when we go out as friends so i can ask her to be my girl friend??
(will be with other friends)
2007-01-06 05:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by basher88888888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just be nice to her i was good friends with this gurl and now we go out i just tryed to be a good friend
2007-01-06 05:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by jessicaluver950 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this should help :)
Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
Call her and ask to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyways.
Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.
Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "DAAAAMMMNNN!!" when they walk into the room, but some would be really offended. To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.
Don't be too clingy. Give her space.
2007-01-06 13:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely you have to dress well! Be confident and share some jokes! be cheerful! smile always! let the girl knows that she came here with you to have fun! Your Hair too! important factor! Check whether you have bad breath etc..this will leave bad impressions on a date...sms her after the date and told her you enjoyed her company!
2007-01-06 13:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by The Stressed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude now really..13 years is one hard age..trust me..
just be nice..not retarded type of nice but be cool..thats important..don't do big nor complicated things..just easy stuff..smile but in a small amount..be calculated in moves..and use your charm..be polite but don't do everything for her,give her space and most important thing CHILL..a girl doesn't like a trembling guy..if she likes you is normal to get together if she doesn't then sorry and neeext
2007-01-06 13:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you she likes you ask her for a smooch
2007-01-06 13:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by mr sniff it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy her a lot of stuff.............
2007-01-06 13:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by sid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋