It’s just I don’t know why I still am. I’m not ugly or anything and I am a nice guy. Maybe I am just to sensible for my own good what do you think?
2007-01-06 04:55:34 · 41 answers · asked by Mr. Shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
early 20's? there's nothing wrong with that. i don't plan on losing mine until i get married and then a few years later.
don't fall into the "i have to have sex with 100 girls because i'm a guy" pressure. so yes, stay the way you are. i can guarantee you that plenty of girls like guys who are like you, nice guys who care about the girl, not the body.
2007-01-06 05:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by CrazySnail 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHAT????????? you still a virgin in your 20's ??????????????
Now this shock can be taken two ways. But in my opinion
You are a very sensible guy, why is it that everyone needs to rush into adult things. You will know when the time is right and after all its meant to be special which these days is just part of the normal thing to do. so the what is a shock to see that someone is actually a virgin still at that age, but still you should feel proud of yourself and not let society make u do things which they think is normal. It's what you think is right and normal to do that is the main thing, purely because you have to live your own life not them live it for you.
Well done your parents should be proud of you :o)
2007-01-06 05:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Alida A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being virgin is a positive attribute to one's personality, be it a woman or a man. It is never easy though for many people as they tend to lose it soon. Sex is a strong emotional drive and an ambitious pursuit of the youth. But those who can control it and direct it the right way, which ofcourse is to achieve it at a mature age in a mature way, will win the race - even in the long run !
2007-01-06 07:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it's fantastic. I am 23 and a virgin, and I would definitely prefer to not lose that to some dirty man whore...I know there are plenty of girls out there that feel the same way, so just keep holding on and wait for that right one. And fyi, there is no such thing as "too sensible" when it comes to such manners.
2007-01-06 05:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's no law! If you haven't met the right person yet then you shouldn't compromise, you'll only end up regretting it. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18, which was older than most people I went to school with, but then my first time wasn't a drunken fumble in the back of a Ford Escort, so it really depends what visions you have of how your first time will be!
2007-01-06 05:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of myself
I am 17 and still a virgin yet people at my school talk about having sex all the time.
When I'm in my early 20's I'll still be a virgin too!
Just wait until you find someone you really love and then it will all make sense and be worth the wait :)
2007-01-06 06:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think its great.I dont want a man with a disease.I think you are smart and taking your time to choose carefully.When you do finally meet someone special take your ti me and go with them to the health department to get checked for stds.Im in my 30s but I know 4 people who have had sexually transmitted diseases and admit it .Imagine how many people probly have them that are hiding it.You sound much more mature than most men.My nephew didnt lose hios till he was 25 years old now hes been married for almost 9 years.
2007-01-06 05:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its okay for your age to be not Virgin. lots of younger kids starter very young as 13 years old and can be end up in getting STD or pregnancy very young. I'm not virgin myself and in my 30's, I did it very young but sensible use condom to be precaution against AIDS/STD and lots of thing can cause problems and include pregnancy, Just remember u decide when and where u feel the right times for u and young lady, don't let that put u in diffs place. Some wait until they are married or for right reason.
2007-01-06 07:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more than ok, maybe u just havent met the right person for you. I always here people saying that they should have waited, and now they regret it. So by waiting, u are doing whats right for you, just wait until you meet ur special someone, and then it will all be worth the wait!!!
Dont be pressured by anyone, do whats right for you!
2007-01-06 07:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's admirable, you'll be ready when you're ready, I was 19 when I lost my virginity when all my friends were having sex at 15 + 16 etc, I don't feel as though I've missed out on anything by waiting.
2007-01-06 04:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋