does anybody agree that looks of a guy or girl (whom ever your going after to get as a life partner) should be a bonus and not a requirement. im SICK and TIRED of being part of a society that is of that looks of a person's looks are programmed.
2007-01-06 04:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by mech_warrior172003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree - looks are fleeting. if you find someone you love for who they are will love them forever
2007-01-06 04:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a perfect world. Alas, the world does not function as it should, therefore we have shallow people.
However, I may not be a beauty expert, but I am sure anyone can look beautiful. Its just a matter of trying. Just take good care of yourself.
1) If your teeth are yellow, you can fix that, just whiten them with some products.
2) Hair doesn't look too good? Hair gels and dyes fix that!
3) Too many moles/freckles/etc? Just get some creams!
4) No tan? Don't spend time in the sun, that gives skin cancer and so do tanning booths! Just get a body spray!
5) Have too big of a nose/etc? Plastic surgery.
Anyone can look good. Some may need to pay more than others, thats how life is. There are good people that will accept you for who you are though. Just keep looking.
2007-01-06 05:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! I agree completely because if you truly want a LIFE's partner, looks will NOT be the same after 100 years of togetherness.
My (third) husband of 20 years and I have some disabilities now, I put on 150 lbs, he has a BIG bald spot and glasses, you get the picture even without one. But we have weathered everything in our marriage because we were friends first, lovers second, and spouses third.
Ask yourself "If this knockout put on 100 lbs or lost 50 lbs of muscle, was in a w/c and could not work, cheated on me because of the same charms that attracted me also attracted another, and nagged daily ......... Would I still want to be with that person?"
If you answer "yes." because the charms and skills of your lover keep you satisfied, because you still spend hours just talking about everything under the sun, and their sense of humor makes the nagging just another smile on your face ............. then you have found a life partner worth keeping.
2007-01-06 05:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by jalyc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person's looks are the first thing that anyone gets interested at first. So yes, looks are a bonus. But in the end what really counts is the personality. I believe that if you have a good heart, it definitely will reflect through your looks.
2007-01-06 05:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Riyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that you are asking this question because you are on the shallow end of the looks pool. of course looks are important because initially that's what attracts us to the other half usually personality and intelligence are the bonuses when we meet someone, that's just the way we are programmed in society with nothing but good looking people on tv and in mags it can be difficult to look past someone's outside before you get the chance to know the beauty inside, but don't give up I found someone who is gorgeous and intelligent at the same time you can too
2007-01-06 05:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Weapon X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
But the thing is that Looks have turned into such a huge bonus that people only want a girl with looks.
2007-01-06 04:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by agent69akasexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree to a point. I feel there must be some level of physical attraction to keep a relationship. It is not by any means what the whole relationship should be based on but I do feel it is nessecary to have a healthy relationship. i couldn't tell you why but it just is.
2007-01-06 04:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately agree... as a woman especially with everything you see on T.V., Movies, etc. it's even worse. Your suppose to have a certain look & weigh a certain amount. It's irritating. Looks are a bonus, true love is hard to find!!!
2007-01-06 04:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is not important if we agree with that or not. The bottom like is that you should be comfortable with the person you are with. Unfortunately god looks get you a lot of mileage but if you are not good inside then sooner of later you are going to know about it.
2007-01-06 04:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yap! I don't go along with society in much of anything, I appear to have my own mind! If you don't agree with it then don't go along with it. I hate religion, won't vote untill i feel the person is worth it, have a boyfriend 23 years younger. I could go on and on but I think you get the idea! Be impowered..... Think for yourself and enjoy YOUR life!
2007-01-06 05:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you 100%. I am so sick of people asking if this guy I just started dating is cute. I mean he is but that shouldn't matter. I should just like him for who he is and I do.
2007-01-06 05:02:17 · answer #11 · answered by lex83201 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋