How do you get a girl to like you?

Question

Yeah, how? I am trying to get this one girl to like me. I ask her like whats up and oh how was this and that she gives like two words for me and so i end up do most of the talking so what im really asking is how do you make her open up, telling some jokes, and what is the best time to ask her to hang out? Wierd though i tell her something good about my life and then she starts talking though oh well. So how do you get a girl to like you?

When i walk past her in the halls she waves and smiles so what does that mean? I wasnt going to say hi but yeah could that be body languge for that or what?

I have like been doing this say since like december 7th, then i took at break yeah um then started back up again with trying to talk to her i have ask like questions about her she sometimes says alot but usally doesnt say much but i really like shes really nice and sweet man and do you think the timing is right to ask her out or just wait and keep talking?

2. don't act desperate but maybe walk and talk to her while going to classes near each other

done that thats what ive been doing. sorry for lots of details i mean some say you just cant make someone like you thats half and half true though you can i think it just takes time though but i think if i do this too long yeah some of you are right its not my time

yeah how can I make her like give more then two words, ask questions that require more?

Do you think asking her to like study with you would be like activie to ask?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Sweetie, she probably already likes you or she wouldn't talk to you at all. The hard truth is that you can't anyone like you. What you can do to improve your chances, is to be yourself first and foremost. Don't try to start a new relationship off on a lie. Then do just what you are doing, communicate. Let her interrupt, let her answer in two words. You can make a list of funny things that you saw one day, and what you heard at school about the teacher in the next building and so on. Make notes of things to talk to her about...movies, books, t.v. shows etc. The list is really endless when you aren't trying to come up with it on a seconds notice. Take her for a picnic or a burger, whatever. Bottom line...be you. You are a good person with a good heart and worthy of this girl. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Good luck, and happy conversations. Nana

Answer 3

OK, all you have to do is find something in common with her! It's so easy too.
1. Say hi in the hallways or wherever you see her to let her know you notice her.
2. don't act desperate but maybe walk and talk to her while going to classes near each other
3. The best time to ask her out is when she starts showing obvious signs that she likes you, like her opening up but not right when she does or she'll feel like you used her.
4. become friends when she is comfortable then ask her.
hope this helped!

Answer 4

Make her laugh, give her small touches [not perv-y like, just like a tap on the shoulder instead of screaming her name across the hall, putting your hand on her back when leading her somewhere, playing with her hands if you're bored in class [if she doesn't mind, doodle on her palm]

As for conversation, try and ask her questions that make her think or that require more than a two word response. Look at her when you talk to her and smile at her when she looks at you.

If you have to pick partners for a class project or something, pick her over someone else, that way you have an excuse to talk to her.
Ask her to sit with you at lunch or sit with her at lunch [un-invited, makes her feel like she wants to be with you].

Try and be cool and collected around her. Makes her feel like she can talk to you without worrying about blundering. If shes babbling or seems nervous, she probably likes you and doesn't know what to say. Help her out by making conversation, where you both need to talk.

Answer 5

this girl isnt worth your time by the looks of it..but if your like me you dont want to give up on somebody you have feelings for..so i suggest start talking to her about things in her life that you do happen to know about..if you dont know much..then ask somebody who would..her friend maybe? but not stuff too personal..cuz thats creepy, if you feel like shes starting to become more open..then thats when you ask her out..oh and you could probably turn up the flirt notch by the sounds of things. But if she doesnt like you after putting all the effort in..then all i can say is you can do a lot better then her and theres probably someone whose acutally worth your time..best of luck!

Answer 6

Start asking her questions about herself, like what kinds of things does she like to do for fun. What kind of hobbies does she have. Does she like animals.......there are so many things you can ask to get to know her. When she sees you taking a genuine interest in her life, she may become interested in you.
Try reading the old classic by Dale Carnegie "How to win friends and influence people". It really works.

Answer 7

I am a girl and first of all girls like funny, sweet , and suprising guys add a little mystery to try to get her to like u like flowers or secret notes and try to become her best friend so she gets to know you and feels comfortable around you so when you ask her out she might actually say yes

Answer 8

I think that u should just try to be urself.it seems that its really what ur doing and if this girl still shows she is not interested in you after say 2months,then it means theres someone else out there for u.u deserve a better girl!!

Answer 9

you just gotta be your self. Don't be too overbearing though. invite her out with a couple of your friends at first, get her comfortable, and then maybe ask just her out on a date. It's all strategy

Answer 10

jus b ur self.....dont act deperate though. When u talk tu her...jus be calm and laid back...give her lil hints dat u like her....mayb flirting. Ask her questions about herself...like wat she likes doin...jus get tu kno her better. And when u feel like she's gettin tu like u....while u r by urself with her...mayb ask he out to a movie or dance or sumthin tu eat! Hope dat helps!