I like a girl and she likes me. She is older than me. I want her to be my girlfriend but im kinda shy when im around her.How do i stop being shy around her? how do i ask her out? And everytime i try to talk to her i say something dumb lol. I really like her please help me
2007-01-06 03:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by blackie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go and do many things as you do as friends. Such as lunch together, going for shopping, movies, or playing together etc., Be friendly until you get really comfortable being close to her. Then ask her for a real date.
2007-01-06 04:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by tonycharms05 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think she likes you that should give you a certain level of comfort so you can relax. Ask her questions about herself. What does she do in her free time, her family, favorite shows, music, food, etc. In the process you learn more about her. Most people love talking about themselves. She sees that you are intersted in her and you can see if there are any common interests between the two of you. If there is a movie out that she would like to see-that is usually a safe date, you don't have to talk while you're there. When the movie is over, you can go get something to eat and talk about the movie-or what ever else comes up.
2007-01-06 12:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a man and stop acting like a little boy . talk to her and ask her out what is the worst she can say NO and if she says no just put it behind you and move on the shy guy thing will not work be a man and just ask her out
2007-01-06 12:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by iamkim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can't tell her, write a note saying it all! I've had many successful relationships with girls 2 years older than me. you have to make the first move though.
2007-01-06 11:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The second answer is funny, just don't do a 'There's something about Mary'! As you spend more time with her, that feeling will get less and less.
2007-01-06 12:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jane H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay what you need to do is this:
1, stop being shy
2, talk to her
Pretty much what alcohol was invented for, I'm not advocating under-age drinking, but you know needs must and all that.
2007-01-06 11:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kejoxen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when u say something dumb everytime then maybe you can write a note to her
2007-01-06 12:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her you like or text her or IM her and be like i know there is an age difference, but I really like you, would you consider going out with me.
p.s. what IS the age difference? what grade r u in? what grade is she in? it might make a difference!
2007-01-06 11:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just be yourself and talk to her like a friend...explore if she likes you and mayb things will workout the way you want them too....who cares if shes older. it matters how she feels about you and how you feel about her.
2007-01-06 11:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by mech_warrior172003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masturbate before you talk to her. I mean it not a joke
2007-01-06 11:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by bigrapster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋