I am to soon have my 1st experience.
2007-01-06 03:54:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From one gay woman to another:-
Any first sexual experience is skid makingly petrifying. However, confidence is the key to success.
You know how you would like to be touched and you must have an idea of your own 'perfect scenario'. With this in mind, start doing this to her. You will be confident of what you are doing and enjoy the experience.
At some point along the way, she will give you indicators of what she finds pleasurable. I am not being smutty or anything, but listen to the sounds she makes. This will tell you what she likes more.
Also pay attention to body language during these intimate times. Watch for certain arches of the back or her breathing, this is also a very good indicator to what she finds more stimulating.
I would recommend starting off with soft touches in non erotic areas, such as stroking the back of the neck, or the outside of the thigh. Keep this going for a good few minutes. It is a good teaser and shows that you are a considerate lover. Don't just 'dive straight in' (pardon the pun).
That is all I am prepared to give out on a public message board. If you want further help or advice, email me. I will only be too pleased to help.
I wish I had some advice before my first time!
Good luck - but most of all, ENJOY YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 04:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You won't find your answer on here. All you will find is answers to how we would please another woman
You need to be yourself and hope that the reason that she likes you is because you are yourself.
There are plenty of sheep out there and you don't have to be one of them. We are all individual and as such are liked or disliked for being just who we are
2007-01-06 04:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite me along to video the experience ;-)
2007-01-06 04:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dive in and start licking, you will soon know what feels good and what doesn't. Have fun.
2007-01-06 03:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giver her unlimited access to your credit card
2007-01-06 03:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Georgie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by touching and stroking "public areas" and from her reaction, do what feels good to her. She'll let you know.
2007-01-06 03:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever pleases you should please her as well. One thing though, I should be present to make minor changes when required. Please keep me infomed on this...take pictures if you can (for research purposes only, of course). mail me at baaadsport@yahoo.
2007-01-06 04:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Baaadsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my head screams immoral, yuk 4 heavens sake.
my personal opinion i'm not pushing it on others!
& get real, ur a woman, what would u like?
2007-01-06 03:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
just hand over your paycheck to her. if that doesnt do it you will have to work two jobs.
2007-01-06 03:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
alright, another one to the dark side. Kudos to you
2007-01-06 03:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋