What will you do if your love one broke your heart? You gave all and that person sez "im not ready yet." Shoul you still think of that person? Im badly inloved and badly hurt. How to start all over again?
2007-01-06 03:37:23 · 15 answers · asked by Jeckers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a mindset. You have to stop feeling like you are a bad person or unworthy of love because the person "that broke your heart" was not ready; they were merely stating their position on the matter and at least respected you enough to be honest with you.
If a person rejects your advances, it does not mean that it has anything to do with you...most of the time, it has to do with THEM.
You can only hope to truly start over again if you accept these truths and vow to yourself, and truly allow yourself, the happiness you deserve.
If you whine, mope and complain, no one is going to want to be with you! Connection with another person is all about attitude and being open to them.
2007-01-06 03:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely start by spending time w/ your buddies. Go out w/ them and keep your mind pre-occupied by doing things to take up your time. Working out, watching tv/movies, reading, talking to your friends (or whatever your hobbies are)- these are all great ways to keep yourself busy. Just remember that there is more than 1 person out there for you.. and it doesn't seem like she's even one of those that is "for you". You will find someone who you are in love with, but is just as much in love w/ you if not more. This is what you deserve. Don't settle!!
2007-01-06 03:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by soulMate360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to still think of that person whilst your feelings are unresolved. The hurt will subside given time. Start going out with friends socially to build your confidence, and have some fun. When you are over your recent hurt, you will be ready to date again.
2007-01-06 03:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you give them some time. why dont you go the other way around. rather than telling them you love them, make them tell you how much they love you. make them fall in love with you. portray you are the best. ACTING "do it" outwardly. hopw yeh succeed
shall i say you something...............when you wanna smooth relationship......first thing required is how frank you are, second how caring you are.......third how much useful time you spend together even amonst all odds.
so now i feel you know what to do.
talk, express, make them feel what u r , tell them what you need, give them what they want. never pick up a quarrel just 'coz of frustration. analyse every move in a relationhip. its a treasure.
mouth eyes and hands work wonders
talk signal and show (PDA -private display of affection), somethings have to be said something are meant to be shared
share it....life will be great
2007-01-06 03:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by angel gione 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the SAME position right now, i feel sorry for myself almost and i shouldnt, everyone just keeps telling me- TIME, just wait and you'll feel better, so thats what im going to try, i guess. its okay to cry long and hard, and to remember the good times but always think about why you broke up in the first place, and why they werent ready for the commitment that you were so willing to provide them with. its the most difficult thing ive had to go through and my heart goes out to you because i know exactly what you are going through, good luck and enjoy the weekend, i hope you feel better.
2007-01-06 03:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a bullet, rent a gun? *Chevy Chase, "Vegas-Vacation".
sorry, humor.... any who....
I used to go do something new after every break up. That was my cue I open the paper, see what was new (now internet etc) and go find something I had never done before, I have taken night classes in a unique thing, backpacked, took flying lessons, learned to drink, learned to stop drinking, and went celibat or what ever...no sex... and I failed misserably on that one as I just got randied up and found another girl to soon and then had to find something new too do...
anyway,,, you get the idea... your free... good time to go do something you have never done before. I have found that simple ste leads me into some interesting new things... and people...
2007-01-06 03:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres something i did when i gave all and my relationship ended badly
the way i got over it for the most part was by becoming a narcissist
its not a very fun thing to be, but i made me think that i was better than my ex and she wasnt good enough for me, its a very dangerous path to follow, but it gets the job done
2007-01-06 03:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you get over a punch in the stomach. You walk away, hope the pain goes away soon, and you don't look back unless you want to get punched again.
2007-01-06 03:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes and goes in cycles. You may want to wait at the line and she may turn back. If you feel you waited too long then it is time to move on.
2007-01-06 03:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by foodguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋