I am leaving my secret sexless seven year green card marriage-to be with a ghost-my mother doesnt know I'm married.
She haunts me during the day and comes to me in my dreams at night. I am sane-no drug or mental history to speak of. I came from a good place-good stock, a good family. No abuse. Many gifts from my parents, many friends around me. Very lucky.
Never had any trouble finding a girlfriend or being in a relationship with one until now.
I have bought roses, wine, a diamond ring-which I mailed to her via federal express. Every song I hear on the radio, every song from my childhood-reminds me of her. All those childhood memories dashed and replaced by this woman that I accidently fell in love with. The woman on my screen.
To combat the problem I recently removed my television as to not see her. But she comes to me. I also stopped listening to the radio but she still visits.
Is this romantic or tragic?
This is my reality since Halloween 06.
I dropped everything. Is this love?
2007-01-06 03:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by midnight rider 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's obsession and stalking. You need help! It looks like mental illness !
2007-01-06 03:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Joe S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I understand you correctly...that you have a relationship with a person you have seen on television, on the radio, internet or other media...without actually having MET this woman...then this isn't necessarily tragic (seek Greek/Roman mythology for the sculptor who fell in love with his own work, as well as "My Fair Lady"), but it is disturbing.
There's one thing about having a crush or a fantasy on a woman, there's another where you start sending things to her without her knowledge or consent. Love cannot exist between indivduals if it is one-sided...and especially if the other person has no idea (or interest) in having a relationship with you.
Talk to someone professional. They can help you sort out this feeling and whether it is healthy or not.
2007-01-06 03:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what???sorry im not catching that to well..
lower your standers get out and met new people ,maybe some that share your star or porn star personally and looks.
alot of people day dream about hot stars but what your saying is sounding more like your on your way to being her stalker.
so before she lands you in jail i would seek a dr who can help...
if you let this go it will becomes you and comsumes every minute of your time and life.you will will start to loose the sence of right and wrong and take it over the insane level. just be care full...there is help out there just have to look for it....
lol good luck
2007-01-06 03:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by michelle e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right this is the factor approximately love...the 'emotions' of floating on a cloud and the fireworks, they subside and you start to love the guy bc you experience comfortable around them- via fact he seems to be your well-known guy or woman interior the international. in case you won't be able to experience your self around him, it quite is in all danger no longer love, yet infatuation. a great form of adolescents are puzzled approximately love. Love must be distinctive than infatuation. Infatuation is short lived, per an volatile commencing up. yet love, actual unconditional love, lasts continuously... and that's a call. in basic terms bear in mind this in existence. Love is blind now and returned. once you prefer to love, prefer to love continuously. the sentiments you're reviews are widespread, and not something you ought to experience dumb approximately in any respect!!! do no longer rush something. enable nature take its direction :)
2016-12-12 05:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is not love this is obession or a type of mental illness. You asked the question to the world on line, gather the courage and see a clergy or therapist.
2007-01-06 03:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by mamadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMM, and your not taking drugs? no mental disease? I would quit living by the tv and radio and get a real person, gee i can't believe i answered this one.
2007-01-06 03:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I think you need to seriously talk to someone rather than sitting on the 'net, dude. There are many agencies that you can talk to for free.
2007-01-06 03:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Aquamarine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...which personality is speaking to me right now?
2007-01-06 03:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeh...what the hell?
2007-01-06 03:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋